It's hard to take the next step when you don't know someone very well. I just can't take the chance any more, not just because I have a child, but because out of the 4 attempts (of non-internet dating) I have made in the last 12 years, 3 wouldn't take no for an answer when I decided they weren't for me. (the 4th lives in Switzerland!)
I thought the words in a song by Jet (Are You Gonna Be My Girl) were 'jet black stare' but actually it is 'get back stare'. I like my interpretation better!
Yeah, and I also noticed (not just here) that the ones who have to go around proclaiming how 'nice' they are, are the ones who get really vindictive when you tell them you are not interested. (I never describe myself as 'nice')
Just be careful because around here wild mice droppings can carry dangerous viruses. I'm a rodent lover myself, had several as pets, so I would probably do the same thing >';'<
Sorry, but it means she does not want a relationship with *you*. Don't mean to sound harsh, it's just one of those euphemisms people use to not hurt your feelings. I'm assuming she is young like you, it is easier when you get older to be more upfront with people.
Sometimes I read the profile just to find out more about the person whose posts I am reading, not necessarily because I am 'interested', kwim? I read the whole profile but who knows how much is truthful anyway?
Good pics, but your hair doesn't look black like it says in your profile. And you are very specific about height requirements in your match basic. (5'7"-5'7")
"I looked it up in a dream book, and if what they say is to believed dreaming someone else's pregnany is "a new direction and ideas" that i am contemplating...dreaming myself pregnant means time to put those contemplations into action..."
Could be. Dream books are helpful for learning about symbolism, but I find dreams are very personal and not everything applies. But I believe it doesn't matter so much if you can find a positive outcome in it, sounds like you did.
I am pretty good at interpreting dreams for myself and my friends. It helps to know someone a bit.
To give your dream a shot, I would say it means you need to put yourself first (the female child) as opposed to taking care of men (the male children).
I actually dreamt I had a baby last night, too, another girl. This baby was still an infant but already talking, telling me what to do, and trying to convince me she didn't need a diaper, etc, when I knew she did. I am pretty sure the baby represents the daughter I have now, who is approaching the teen years, and is very smart and independant. It was a reminder that I still need to protect her and set boundaries and limits.
Hi, I'm new here too. I'm not necessarily looking for a soulmate.(if there is a such thing, that would be my daughter anyway) I like the forum here and connecting with people around the world. I have to admit that I joined to connect with male type persons as most of my friends in real life are female, and the guy friends I have are not potential partners for me. I don't go out much anymore, and although I work with lots of people, it's too busy to really socialize. Now that I have been on for a few days, I think it would be really cool to make friends with anyone either male or female as there are some really interesting, insightful people here! :o)
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Sense of humor is very attractive.
RE: "The One"/"Soulmates"/How much time...?
Meilandra-I agree with just about everything you said. But I figured this stuff out on my own, I didn't need a degree.