I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I think you are one of the sweetest people on here. I don't pretend to know what it is like to deal with a serious health issue. I have lots of friends with chronic conditions, like lupus and fibralmyalgia, they are strong people and I'm sure you are too, Deb.
I can relate to this totally, I don't have any deep feelings towards my exes except one that I can't shake. It isn't even a recent relationship. If he was my 'soulmate', then why wasn't I his? I hate to think he is the only one for me and I have to pine away for him the rest of my life and he has never given me a another thought.
They used to be cool but now everybody and their grandma has one. I saw a woman at the beach who had a dolphin on her lower back that looked like it was coming out of her butt crack.
I don't really believe in 'soulmates' or 'the one'. I guess I am not that romantic. I can't see me connecting with someone completely different than me, like a biker or an business tycoon.
If it is a long term relationship, I would want someone with a lot in common with me. If the physical attraction loses it's edge, I want to have something to talk about and other things to do. But I wouldn't care if they have other interests, differences are good too.
Semi-vegetarian, I guess, if there is such a thing. My daughter decided to become one, so we eat vegetarian at home. Still eat fish, dairy, eggs. She is totally off all other meat. I am as of now, but not as committed as she is.
I don't think it's any easier to find someone online. If anything it harder, because I am going more by personality than looks. And being more cautious than I used to be when I was younger and without a child.
RE: Girls advise needed
It's not how SOON you call, it's how OFTEN that determines if you are a 'desperate stocker'.