DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE... ( Archived) (42)

May 16, 2006 9:59 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
After reading the threads and their replies on here..it got me to thinking...

What is up with all the men coming on here and saying what a wonderful catch they are and how they just want to find someone to settle down with etc etc....and then when they find a woman prepared to do exactly that...be with them (whether in the same state or not)...share her life with them...they turn around and start calling names..."gold digger" "cash strapped" "liar" "cheater" and the many other inventive names that men come up with....I know very well this happens to a few men on here as well...frustrated

What is everyone's opinion on what has been going on...and more recently it seems..dunno
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May 16, 2006 10:03 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
OT: Was in TO., today, should have looked you up. Paws
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May 16, 2006 10:05 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Yes you should have...it was a "wikked" day out there and i would have enjoyed the company!
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May 16, 2006 10:06 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
OK, next time. Need your #. Paws
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May 16, 2006 10:10 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
No problem...sent it...but you still need to answer this question!hug
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May 16, 2006 10:10 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
All of this coming out now pretty much shows the true colors of the offenders. Like it or not, that's how it's laid out. There's nothing left to mis-interpret in any form I feel. The games played could be out of boredom too, but I don't think that's really the case. If they're that bored, they're better off collecting dust in front of a TV unless they thrive on drama which I can see is quite apparent in a few.

I know who my friends are here and that's all that matters to me.

hug

Rich
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May 16, 2006 10:16 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
My opinion?

There are several men here I would hand a cold beer.


The rest are an...

affliction.
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May 16, 2006 10:19 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
It really is disheartening to watch unfold...because for some of us who are on the brink of "taking chances" those women were inspirations for us to get up from behind the computer and grab life by its horns...but that was back when i believed dating sites were just that..."dating" sites....i honestly believed everyone wanted the same thing here...there are so many "intimate encounter" sites that it seemed a waste of time for "those people" to be on here...and then it does make you wonder if a "relationship" on here turns sour do you have to worry about having your "dirty laundry" hung out in the forums for all to see...

And by the way these are the same men that want women with "No Baggage"...where did they think we got that baggage in the first place...if not from men such as themselves!!very mad
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May 16, 2006 10:23 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Cheers Ocee! cheers
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May 16, 2006 10:23 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
TeddyBearinLkwd
TeddyBearinLkwdTeddyBearinLkwd1 Threads 28 Posts
We're not All the same sweety.
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May 16, 2006 10:24 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
and neither are WE...sweety...
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May 16, 2006 10:24 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
Jetblackstare
JetblackstareJetblackstareOkanagan Valley, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 366 Posts
Yeah, and I also noticed (not just here) that the ones who have to go around proclaiming how 'nice' they are, are the ones who get really vindictive when you tell them you are not interested.
(I never describe myself as 'nice')
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May 16, 2006 10:26 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
Jetblackstare
JetblackstareJetblackstareOkanagan Valley, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 366 Posts
I think people want the fantasy, not the reality.
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May 16, 2006 10:28 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
reality sometimes sucks for those who get what they PRETENDED they wanted
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May 16, 2006 10:29 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
yeah, I call that "you'd better watch out what you ask for"

tongue
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May 16, 2006 10:30 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
ninamoosha
ninamooshaninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 Posts
This is an example of why I would not share too many personal items w/anyone I have met on a forum....after meeting several times in person....that might be different
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May 16, 2006 10:32 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I agree...its just that such things just add to the "watch out for.." list...as if it weren't already long enough for internet dating...
roll eyes
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May 16, 2006 10:36 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
ninamoosha
ninamooshaninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 Posts
One bad apple ruins the pie....no...how does that go?....Anyway guess my 101 Grandma was right on that saying....really makes it frustrating for the good apples....doh
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May 16, 2006 10:36 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
TeddyBearinLkwd
TeddyBearinLkwdTeddyBearinLkwd1 Threads 28 Posts
You know I've been told by people on this site that I need to change my name, and I almost did, cause I'm new to this whole thing, but after thinking about it a little I decide, hell no I'm not going to change who I am for anybody except for me, and this is who I am, take it or leave it.
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May 16, 2006 10:39 PM CST DR. JEKYLL & MR. HYDE...
So why is it Some women come on here acting like they are talking to
there soon to be ex husband? And when a nasty reply comes back at them they play the victom?
Wikked I just read some from you bashing others, is it ok if you don't plan on dating them?
When you point the finger at someone you have 3 pointing right back at you.confused
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