PandoraX Forum Posts (3,191)

RE: What language of love do you speak?

Your author didn't take into account my personality type (ENTP/ENTJ)... we're only 2% of the population.

RE: What language of love do you speak?

Yes, June 25 is my actual birthday. I'm a Cancer born on the cusp of Gemini... which means I'm triplets.


I just meant that this is the second time I'm celebrating it since my marriage ended is all.

RE: What language of love do you speak?

Well, try buying your own damn birthday gifts for the last 10 years because he had no clue (and didn't want to know) about what to get me.

I believe in giving gifts to celebrate the big things, like birthdays and anniversaries. And that gift should clearly show that you care about and know that person well enough to get them just the right thing. It doesn't have to be expensive either. It could be quality time together at a little bed and breakfast in the neighboring EU country for example...

RE: What language of love do you speak?

Of course, my Love Language is flexible due to circumstances. When in a LDR, my priorities change. That's when the physical touch is much less vital than the Words of Affirmation.


As for words of affirmation, I'm exceptionally good at doing that. I believe in telling people how I feel about them, and I have the eloquence, courage, and ability to fully express myself emotionally to do that.



Just my luck last time I did that the guy couldn't handle it.

RE: What language of love do you speak?

Because I don't have any of it.

RE: What language of love do you speak?

I saw this as I was about to go to bed, and had to take it.


So, here goes:


Words of Affirmation - 5

Quality Time - 9

Receiving Gifts - 2

Act of Service - 5

Physical Touch - 9

RE: Your First Thought

You better be well-rested and energetic if you want to take me on, blue eyes. I don't do quickies. Don't do thing by halves either.

RE: would you date...

I can't remember the last time I dated someone from my own native culture...

RE: Describe urself in one word!

exceptional

(so I've been told)

RE: Freedom

As long as you really believe "love always dies out" you're not ready to be in another relationship.


I believe that falls under the heading self-fulfilling prophecy.

RE: get together in Holland.

August 27- NIGHT-OUT IN AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS

RE: Are we wasting our time here?

Guess that means it's time for another waxing appointment.

RE: Are we wasting our time here?

I wouldn't say I'm not missing anything. I'm missing some good friends and family.

RE: Are we wasting our time here?

Ben Wa balls?

RE: Are we wasting our time here?

I heard it was hot as Hades in Texas right now... oh how I do NOT miss the summers there.

RE: Are we wasting our time here?

Whatever.

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Gigi

RE: The Harley riders wish...

Well, there's another reason why I'm an atheist. Why believe in a supreme being that can't even answer a question I can.

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Rudy - Supertramp

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Hey Jude - Beatles

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Michael - Franz Ferdinand

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Rio - Duran Duran

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Nikita - Elton John

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Song for Sharon - Joni Mitchell

RE: Songs With A Male or Female Name

Jolene - The White Stripes

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-) Part II

I feel better now that I got that off my chest. Feeling nice and calm... and sleepy. Goodnight.

RE: Can geographic location have this much of an impact?

Hey, girlfriend. Thanks for the heads up.


I was never worried.

And reading that thread you linked soooo does not surprise me. I think this type applies to one of my vents this afternoon.

RE: Can geographic location have this much of an impact?

You're talking to an American starting to date again in Holland... and the last time I dated was on a college campus in Texas. So I get what you're saying about social phenomena having an impact. I have a BS in psychology and took some interesting sociology classes as well, so Ï really do get what you mean.


I am just pointing out things in your post that I read that would account for your lack of success in just about any setting. And if you choose to ignore those habits, I refer you to the theory that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results


And you can't really separate the why and the how if you're serious about making change.


So good luck with your sociological question. When you're ready to take practical steps to differ your results, try giving my good advice another read without the condescending attitude (which could be why your friend does better than you... just what are you projecting for all to see?).

RE: Describe urself in one word!

zen