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I'm a 38 (born 12-23-1975) black male who would give 100% of me to a woman that longs to be loved and satisfied in every way. You won't get no drama, BS, or games from me, I'm just a hopeless romantic who will always strive to surpass a woman's expec
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To find unconditional love is a tall order.
Up to now I have only seen unconditional love only in children.
Still we wish you good luck...
or wait im on a dating site, expect nothing, stupid me, im invisible
You haven't just talked about individual women, you talked about British and Jamaican women - that's whole groups of women.
People are rarely completely self-aware and self-actualised. I'm wondering why you expect them to be.
Personally, I think being a member of a dating site enables and facilitates personal development for many people. I think that's a good thing. It's up to you how you use it and whether you choose to learn from it. It's not up to you to change it for your convenience.
You only have control over your own choices.
You could choose to learn from your experiences and make better relationship choices for yourself in the future.
You can't stop women who are incompatible with you from being members to save yourself the bother of making wiser choices.
“The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule is a person's conscience.”
~ Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird
I'm sure I heard a noise.
Was that a Freudian slip, ssb?
(Wrong country, ssb.
But Wales is not England, not more than Scotland or N.Ireland is.
Ok, having cleared that up, I am French, so, according to all the women you describe here, in which category do you think I belong may I ask?
I don´t disagree with you at all about "some" people not being ready to be in relationships. I don´t know about the women, as I haven´t dated any, but men are as equally as bad, no?
But I wouldn´t go as far as putting people into categories, not more that I would generalize or discriminate them in any way.
As for your question "have you ever met someone online who claims they´re ready for love... but they don´t have time or have hidden issues..."
I agree entirely with you on this one.
I have even met quite a few men who "appear" to be the ideal man I´m looking for and vice-versa, we "seem" to be compatible in every way etc... but...? they suddenly get cold feet for some obscure reason???
You are entitled to your own feelings, however. It's up to each of us to work out which bits we're sensing from internal stimuli and which bits from external stimuli.
So, if I see two, or three black men stealing it's okay to imply that similarities can't be denied based upon group belonging, whilst at the same time denying categorisation?
It's a metaphor. I used it metaphorically.
And you may choose who to have a relationship with. Stop trying to blame women you don't like for being on dating sites, rather than you taking responsibility for your choice in partners.
PS. We're women, not 'females'. You're not determining the gender of hamsters here.