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Jan 29, 2009 10:36 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Sometimes I give up in trying to find someone and I'll hide my profile. And then I'll think I'll try again but no one is contacting me. After you read my profile, do you know why I'm not getting email. I've met quite a few men and for one reason or another it never works out. Would you please read my profile and give me an idea why you think I'm not being contacted. I think it's because I'm 66 years old. You've heard it before how people say they are younger than their years and that is true of me too. I think like someone in their early 50's and don't wear housedresses. I also think I'm not getting contacted because my profile is to the point. This site doesn't have many men in the age range of 58 to 70 so that could be another problem. Of course I think the biggest reason for rejection is because I'm not a size 8 in physical attributes. But in my heart, I'm a very faithful woman to the man I'm involved with. Moral attributes don't seem to be important anymore. I know who I am and the one thing I will not change about myself is being a monagamous person. Whadda ya think?
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Jan 29, 2009 10:40 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Your profile is excellent! I would not change a thing.
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Jan 29, 2009 10:41 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I see nothing wrong with your profile. I agree with Ken, I wouldn't change a thing. wine
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Jan 29, 2009 10:43 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"I don't see any problems with what you wrote on your profile.
However,maybe if you changed your profile pic to something
a bit more daring..?But,don't get me wrong,respecting yourself
and who are you are is the only way to go.This is just a
suggestion.Dare to be daring,even at our age".


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Jan 29, 2009 10:47 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
I liked your profile, said exactly what you wanted,my only criticism would be that you have limited yourself to only large and tall men, maybe by expanding that criteria to encompass shorter and slimmer men will give you a wider audience.

But wish you the best of luck,you sound a lovely person.
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Jan 29, 2009 10:48 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Hi Snuggles.........wave

Having read your profile and looked at your pics I would have thought you would be inundated with requests.........

You seem like a very honest , caring and loving person and your pics are gorgeous.........

One thing I will say........Why limit your self to 100 miles from New Jersey......?

All I know is if I were 10 years younger and 2 stone lighter you'd have to fight me off...........laugh

Stick with it, keep asking questions like this, dont be afraid to make the first move, and I'm sure by paying it forward as you seem to have done all your life, happiness will come when you least expect it........

Best of Luck......

wine
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Jan 29, 2009 10:50 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
Hi snugglebunnie! wave

Your profile is perfect! In fact, it's one of the best I've ever read here. And you are a beautiful woman who looks much younger than the numbers that we call our age.

You're on 7 or 9 favorites lists and have been viewed over 1000 times since July 2008. Not bad!!!

Perhaps if you run across someone who strikes your fancy, drop them a flower or e-mail. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

I haven't seen you in the forums too much. Start posting here and perhaps the magic will happen. When you least expect it, that's when cupid takes his aim...

Much luck to you! By the way, I'm Eggs. A pleasure to meet you!

wine
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Jan 29, 2009 12:03 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO RESPONDED TO MY PROFILE QUESTION. YOU ARE ALL VERY NICE PEOPLE. heart wings
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Jan 29, 2009 12:29 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
Me4u2
Me4u2Me4u2here, Georgia USA66 Posts
mbcasey: Your profile is excellent! I would not change a thing.
Juz chill it bes allgood applause
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Jan 29, 2009 1:29 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
Happily4sure
Happily4sureHappily4sureHamilton, Ontario Canada6 Threads 104 Posts
Love your profile, and for 66, you are very attractive, and it is obvious, you have looked after yourself. No worries, someone will show up knocking on your mailbox! typing typing
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Jan 29, 2009 1:53 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
Your profile is fine. Have you emailed any men? Sometimes we women have to make the first move.
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Jan 29, 2009 2:56 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
You want humor? YOU are a nasty man and probably deserve what she did to you. By the way, I am NOT a lawyer. I work in a law office. laugh laugh
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Jan 29, 2009 3:01 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
WOW! Would you like to write my profile?? grin grin
I wouldn't change anything you've written! hug

wave
Merky
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Jan 30, 2009 3:46 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
javid1964
javid1964javid1964rasht, Iran20 Threads 10 Polls 242 Posts
Happily4sure: Love your profile, and for 66, you are very attractive, and it is obvious, you have looked after yourself. No worries, someone will show up knocking on your mailbox!


step forward please , he is lonely...


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Jan 30, 2009 11:29 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Well, first of all, I'm not an attorney. I am the hard working legal assistant who makes the attorney look good.

And yes, I do email men. I think I should soften my profile but I'm not sure what to say. When I write that I am passionte and sensouous I get propositions that I'm not interested in. I want men to know that I'm still alive in "that" area but I don't want to advertise it. Where are the men who want a woman who won't cheat on him no matter how tough things get? Where are the men who want someone they can trust? I'm not beautiful and I'm certainly not skinny like so many woman. Men have their pick of the litter. I will probably be at the airport when my ship comes in. help uh oh crying mumbling
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Feb 1, 2009 12:50 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
nayobi
nayobinayobiBalcombe, West Sussex, England UK61 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 1, 2009 1:06 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
nayobi
nayobinayobiBalcombe, West Sussex, England UK61 Posts
Hi Snugglebunnie,
I like your profile and I have to say that you you are looking really very well.applause
I also was long time with a hidden profile, just too mach problems around me, and now again I have to write all new again.have no messages at all, but not in despair, it is nice to read or to write if you have what to say.
my problem is the language ..not only, sometimes to shy..
the only one think,you do not believe in perfect mach?? maybe you are to wise. but he is thinking about a compromises at the beginning ..
wish you luck and hope for you and my hug
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Feb 2, 2009 6:09 AM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Your profile,to me is fine.
...but like many of us,in all age and weight catagories love takes time and is not always found on line.

Enjoy your stay here and embrace whatever it is that comes your way, and may cupid only be a arrow throw away...tee-hee!!!

...wine
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Feb 3, 2009 8:44 PM CST LOOKING FOR ADVICE
I think it is a simple thing. Its the body language. Unfold your arms, and make them welcoming.
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