There is no charge to leave your profile on the site, however, you may cancel your membership at any time.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Cancel Membership link in the list of links.
Fill out the form and click the "Cancel Membership" button at the bottom of the page.
You can temporarily HIDE your profile, instead of canceling. That way your profile will not be deleted permanently.
If you just want to take a break from the site for awhile, then hiding your profile is better than canceling.
In the top nav bar, click on the "People" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "People". It will expand.
Then click on More in the list of links.
You will be taken to the Search Options page, that has an extensive list of searches.
You will find links to the Advanced Search, Quick Search, Username Search, Browse, Site Search, Astrology Search, and much more.
Visit the Search Options page for a complete list of Search Options.
The best way to handle unwanted mail, is to Block the member that you do not want to communicate with.
The only way you can block someone, is if they send you an Email or an eCard. Otherwise there is no reason to preemptively block them and fill up your Blocked List.
When you are viewing a Mail or eCard they sent you, click on the " Block this Member" button in the right sidebar. at the bottom of the page.
The next time they try to write to you, they will get a message saying they have been blocked - so they will know you don’t appreciate what they have previously sent.
If the member has displayed bad manners or bad taste, the Block feature is the best solution. However, you should report anyone who you suspect of scam or illegal activity to: Report Abuse.
Next Up: What happens when I block someone?
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
Then click the " Unblock Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
This will delete them from your Blocked List, and they WILL be able to contact you again.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then select the criteria of members that you want to block (by Location, Age Range, Gender, Marital Status, etc.). Then click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
A NEW message (that you have not opened yet) will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it
A message you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
A staff message will always have a red stamp on it that says "CS Staff". Like this:
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Outbox in the list of links.
A list of your sent messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
The Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Yes you can.
In your Outbox... the Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Next Up: How to view your Outbox »
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then choose the age range that you WANT TO HEAR FROM (anyone outside that age range will not be able to contact you). Then click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Click the "Block" radio button next to the Locations you want to WANT TO BLOCK from contacting you.
Click the "Allow" radio button next to the Locations you want to allow to contact you.
Then click the "Save Changes" button at the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the Articles link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on Articles in the list of links.
You will see a list of Articles.
Click on the Create Article button at the top right corner of the page.
Enter your Article and press the "Submit Article" button.
Your Article will appear on the All Articles page.
UPDATE: We don't accept Articles through the site anymore, if you want to write an article for the site, you can send it to Contact Us.
In the top nav bar, click on the Articles link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on Articles in the list of links.
You will see a list of Articles.
Click on an Article to view it.
After reading the Article, press the "Post Comment" button.
Then type in your comment and press the "Submit Comment" button.
Your comment will appear immediately under the Article.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on eCards Inbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming eCards will appear.
To view an eCard, click on the subject of the eCard.
The eCards you have NOT opened yet, will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it.
An eCard you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on eCards Inbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming eCards will appear.
Then click on the tab that says eCard Outbox at the top of the page.
A list of your Sent eCards will appear.
To view an eCard you sent, click on the subject of the eCard.
The eCards that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Yes you can.
In your eCard Outbox... the eCards that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Next Up: How to view your eCard Outbox »
In the top nav bar, click on the "More" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "More". It will expand.
Then click on Tags in the list of links.
You will see a list of the Most Popular Tags created by other members.
Choose a Tag, and click on the it, to see all the members that have that tag.
In the top nav bar, click on the Videos link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on Videos in the list of links.
You will see a list of Videos.
Click on a Video to view it.
After watching the Video, press the "Post Comment" button.
Then type in your comment and press the "Submit Comment" button.
Your comment will appear immediately under the Video.
In the top nav bar, click on the Poems link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on Poems in the list of links.
You will see a list of Poems.
Click on the Create Poem button at the top right corner of the page.
Enter your Poem and press the "Submit Poem" button.
Your Poem will appear on the All Poems page.
After you submit your Poem, you will have the option to change the look of the poem (Background color, Text-color, Border-color, Font, Font-size, etc.). This step is optional.
In the top nav bar, click on the Poems link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says " Forums / Blogs / Polls / Poems / Videos / etc.". It will expand.
Then click on Poems in the list of links.
You will see a list of Poems.
Click on a Poem to view it.
After reading the Poem, press the "Post Comment" button.
Then type in your comment and press the "Submit Comment" button.
Your comment will appear immediately under the Poem .