I agree that making plans when you know you don't intent to carry them out is indeed inconsiderate -
Although I have a friend that always says 'Lets get together and do that" (what ever the suggestion) and never really intents to get together - It's like a parent that answers their child's request with a "maybe".
So sorry this happened to you - better off allowing this hurt to heal without him - allows the right person to come into your life without "the baggage" hanging on.
It makes me think - should women have a conversation early on into a relationship to ask "Where is this going?"
I agree these might be some of the reasons - however - my advice is to move on - DO NOT call him - DO NOT text him - silence is the best response - why waste your time on finding out a reason when it has nothing to do with YOU and everything to do with HIM.
There are a lot of things we do not deserve - however we rise above these time wasters of wondering about WHY because there is no "figuring out the minds of men" It is good to find out about the character of this person at such an early stage of the game.
The Canadian constitution changed in 1982 - I thought the Queen was no longer head of state for Canada..... not sure goes to show what living in the US does to the knowledge base of Canadian politics......
Even with the tender young age..... not appealing to me except if seeing you at a party - cause your life is so full - it would appear that you would have no time for a serious relationship because of the sports commitment and the woman would only be girls who want to "play games" with the band -
it's ok you are very young and have a lifetime to enjoy it.
I think that the chances are very good to meet someone of your dreams if you use this site as a tool and not be a tool and use this site......
The conversations start here.... then you meet the person.... then you have more conversations....with the same and others.... and then you meet the people and ...... voila'
you find the mate that matches - all jokes about bigotry aside... ( for the moment)
I suggest you don't worry about filtering out or getting filtered out until you start having those awkward conversations.....
RE: Do we deserve the silent treatment?
I agree that making plans when you know you don't intent to carry them out is indeed inconsiderate -Although I have a friend that always says 'Lets get together and do that" (what ever the suggestion) and never really intents to get together - It's like a parent that answers their child's request with a "maybe".