Doesn't the world give humankind an education every day. What's the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"... you can provide an "education" and good luck at what is learned....
I once had a steady fellow get mixed up and instead of calling me turtle dove or apple dumpling call me "turtle dumplng" - he wasn't steady too long after that....
Isn't all about choice - 2 of my sisters would love to stay home and do the traditional thing and they don't have that choice in todays economy.
If the question is are married traditional women happier than married modern women - good question.
In a recent American poll the happiest people are married men and single women which suggests that happiness is not an option for married women in either the traditonal or modern role.
Happiness is such an elusive thing anyway isn't it?
The shock value aside - India has a long tradition of arranged marriage that work - it was culturally designed to protect the women and men, it helps families merge together for a stronger family unit.
Sometimes the "love match" leaves both the new couple without the support of either family - I know of Indian couples here in America that have an arranged marriage -
Technology has a way of changing cultural and tradition. There is always those in power that don't want the change.
In the wolf pack, my understanding is that the beta males and females do not mate. Just the alpha male and female who everyone takes care of the pups in the pack - but my research on wolves is old....
In the lion pride, the females mainly hunt and provide food for the pride and the male just sires the cubs and fights off all comers. The females have been known to also fight off all new strangers in their territory.
Luckily humans don't have it so tough.... right? and if ever I am considering a date in the wilderness... well lion pride over wolf pack it is...I might like to hunt....
Alright busted - I only met a few (10 or so), and none intimately. I have dated many Canadian and American men - again - not many intimately rather only a few... so my opinion is just that...my opinion.
Still.... and not that this can be said of all Scotsmen, but if you are looking for a generaly smart, hardworking, fierce warrior protector type -confident enough to be manly and still wear a skirt....then choose a man from Scotland.
If you want a man with a good sense of humor then choose a man from Scotland.
If you want a man who treats you with respect and still makes you feel that animal attraction then choose a man from Scotland.
If you want a man, who is a good man, a strong man, and a generally handsome man, then choose a man from Scotland.
If you want a man who makes your inner butterflies flutter in unison at his approach, then choose a man from Scotland.
Again just my opinion, since you really wanted to know....
My thoughts are that the preference for an alpha, or beta man depends on a woman's furtility cycle. Studies suggest that in the case of attraction women in a high cycle become risk takers and might prefer the alpha to potentially "father the child". Later she goes for the beta to provide a secure life for the family....
Men on the other hand once they are attracted to a woman they usually stay attracted. Not so with woman according to the current studies available.....
Good conclusions however, on another perspective - I am miles away, and plan to meet up in the future, have other things in life that require my attention, and just because I can talk about a number of things doesn't mean it is interesting to the receiver - it takes two....
However, those I laugh, share with, might find someone else in the meantime (a real person maybe in their neighborhood). Initiating a long distance communication is a challenge at best, because so much time is invested for someone you have never met and when you do.....
I think too, people need to get involved in activities outside of living in this virtual world - there is a lot out there to see and do. It is a choice meeting someone and spending time doing things together - or meeting someone on line and just sharing chat.
Does the above bother you if you love someone to the point that you have to sleep in separate beds ?[/quote
What if I feel my snoring bothers my loved one that I sleep in a separate room? Separate beds in the same room can be just a problematic, especially with an insomniac.
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RE: IF YOU WERE GOD
Doesn't the world give humankind an education every day. What's the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"... you can provide an "education" and good luck at what is learned....