Inspirations, stimuli that keep us going, and move us to be stimulated to do an activity/actions/emotions that appeal to our mind and soul.
Just like writing a blog, what stimulates me is the idea of talking to some nice people (though indirectly) and know what's other's may be doing in this fine Saturday. If I feel down sometimes my participation in the blogs varies, if I am up and about that's when I frequent on comments and write. Do you have the same tendency?
In real life why, what, who keeps you going, and give inspirations? .... And mind to be inspired as well here.
I read on one article today that when a woman is talking to a man, then she suddenly stops and said the word "Nothing", the man would be annoyed and would think of reasons why she said nothing.
What if I really meant nothing? Before getting annoyed, would you care to ask why I said nothing? Depends if I will answer?
I understand what does it mean, in real life. You may or may not accept it but all of us has the tendency to think of our own's interests, according to circumstances and esp. if own's welfare is threaten.
What about in the internet world; having some so called friends, constant mails, chat, etc (no special gf/bf connotation, just being there for each other), then one day called, "You are selfish!" I inquired but didn't get a clear answer.
So what's being selfish ... here?
Oh well, why don't we party on a Tuesday!
Shay here. I am back (KSA) in the dungeons...lol... I had a blast back home, for more than a month. And I do consider it my summer holiday. Here are some remembrance of my great and fantastic time.
Enjoyed swimming, got tanned.
Enjoyed food
Enjoyed time with my family
Enjoyed being out as much as I can (which I seldom do here in KSA)
What you did last summer?
I do not have all the answers. If I have, then I will know what, when, why, and how something will happen to everybody especially to the people I love. Things happen for a reason, but I can't stop thinking what if things could be all different and some things (not so good things) have been avoided. The words will be, IF ONLY!
... Not mine!
I have attended a wedding party (three this month) of female co-workers. They are all Saudi nationals of course. The visitors are required to put on dress (as in long gowns same like going on an Oscars Awards Night), with adorably heavy make ups by the Saudi females. I bought one long gown, got excited to the idea that we can take photos during the party only to find out we can't.
No remembrance whatsoever.
The place was a big social hall, separated by walls, the female and the male area. Females go have party with themselves and males on the other. No seeing each other. Saudi music playing, pica foods, and dinner (whole sheep in one table; with more than 30 tables). The females could only eat after the males have eaten. So imagine the dinner table after the males have already eaten. Can't describe.
We got no sight of the bride. Where was she? Hiding in one room with all the beautiful wedding gown and make up on. I don't have any idea if photos were taken to have at least a remembrance of her special day. She's still on honeymoon vacation so I can't ask.
Just the idea of not having any photo or video on my wedding day is so sad. I want my special day to be remembered thru those photos and videos. But who I am to say that for the females saudis, their wedding is there special day. They did not even have a glance of whom they would marry before the wedding day.
For me, I love my wedding day to be recorded and remembered. It doesn't have to be grand, a simple wedding will do as long as my beloved ones will be there and that I am marrying to the person that loves me and I love him to. And yes, I believe in marriage!
What are those bad things and who are those good people?
And she answered, "You will never know what good and bad is, without all this trial,and challenges in life, wrong or right,we go thru all kinds of fire in our lives, this make us strong,as a person. Good and bad people goes to the same fortunes of their time in this earth, rest assure that you are not alone,someone or anyone can become a blessing in your time of need."
Have a great weekend everyone.
YAY!....
I am really happy right now! I feel like I am a teenager who is giggling of excitement and gladness to see you both happy and in love!... Thank you for sharing some of your great times with me (on another site) along knowing each other better. I wish you all happiness and all the love in the world.
Wish me luck also Ateh I and B. Love you both. Hugs!
At first I was, "Oh, okay. He is so weird, blunt and rude." But as the months go by interacting with him here in the blogs, and reading his comments made me realize he is a different person (I mean that in a good way), deep and a real man (that I mean in a sexy way...
) . I am again on one of my "crush" day!
Would it be possible for him to notice me? I have been hinting.
I have been asked by someone, "If you are to get married, where you want to have a home?" Thinking that my husband will be coming from very far from I came from, I said wherever he wants as to settle (his place maybe) provided I will get to familiarize the new place first and the people of whom I will be associating in the future. And if that would not be possible, then maybe the two of us could select a suitable place, new environment to the both of us, provided again that we can survived and raised a a decent family. Is it possible?
What's your idea of home? Would you want to be living in the same area you are used to (where you grow up)? Or are you open to new challenges in a new environment?
Someone/Something think the world only revolves around him/her/it!
* Enjoy pipz. For ALL *
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