Being selfish
I understand what does it mean, in real life. You may or may not accept it but all of us has the tendency to think of our own's interests, according to circumstances and esp. if own's welfare is threaten.What about in the internet world; having some so called friends, constant mails, chat, etc (no special gf/bf connotation, just being there for each other), then one day called, "You are selfish!" I inquired but didn't get a clear answer.
So what's being selfish ... here?
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When we first leave our mothers bodies,we scream and cry and DEMAND attention. This is our basic instinct which never truly leaves us.
Anyone who claims that they are not selfish,is a total hyphocrite and cannot be trusted.
Have not seen you very, very long.How are you dear? I have no idea what meant this guy, calling you sellfish. Maybe just looking for an excuse or considered not talk enough about his deeds!
Just ask him!
I have been selfish too many times.
I had one friend called me selfish here before. I thought the reason he said that was because he felt real upset, depressed and nobody to turn to. Then got me that strong word. In fairness to him he apologized and said he was just sad. I was not there to comfort him. Just that I have also issues/problems of myself, and not being always online.
I can feel you are not as what you were accused to; don't let it bothers you much
Some times people ought to be thinking of own's self only and not minding other people's feelings might be. I am not bothered anymore Lach.
That's good to hear and enjoy your weekend, I hope you got extra weekend this week
Jana, thank you.
Tell him I said so & he can smoke that in his pipe!
Thank you.
Other than that...How are you? I am so happy to see you! I think about you and Lachi and Jasmine alot and i consider you girls my special friends!
see you later on the blogs!
Parti and V, a funny and adorable tandem really. Thank you guys for gracing my blogs.
That time when he needed my time (to listen to his concerns) I was also struggling with some things. I have also problems on my own that I need to attend to immediately. Didn't get much time to be online but I have told him as well as all my friends here in CS, even in the blogs. I am also thinking maybe he was as well be drunk that time. Because when he is drunk he tend to be tactless, very. But we are fine now. And he will always be a friend to me.
just dropping by. When all is said and done, forgive and forget.
I have been in here CS for a year now (11 months here in the blogs). I have met some people, kind ones (so I thought) but the kindness faded. But don't get me wrong, there are real kind and nice people in here. Being there without asking something in return, without demanding anything even if they are entitled to (my term, :)) I have also "nearly" fall for men I thought to be of genuine interest only to find out they are just making excuses and don't even know what they really want in here; to find the one or to just play around. I have learned that in order to be less painful for me from being attached to somebody, it is better to be of friends ... and do not expect something. I am as generous as I could be. And as my abilities could permit me, I will be there for someone who needs me ... But they must also understand that I may appear okay in here, I am also tackling difficulties. If they need me, they can say so and I will be there.
My apologies for rambling.
This internet world is so confusing at times.
I am not bothered and worried. It has been in the past (3 months ago, :)) and both of us have made ammend. As I have always told him, I am just here. If he ask my help (if that's what I can call it) in any matter I will be there, as long as I can.