From where I am
Okay, I am from South East Asia and currently in the Middle East working for my hard earn cash. I've got reasons why I am here and to those close friends, they know very well my story.I am NOT born with the silver spoon in my mouth. Hardship is not a word for me. I work diligently and enjoy my earnings as much as I do and give portions to my loved ones. Oh, that's me. NOW.
My question is, Would you hesitate to contact someone you like in here because you take consideration of his/her location?
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If you mean the location itself, no, I don't mind it, everything depends on the person (and alas, on the distance as I said...).
distance is always a problem of course, because if u do not find someone close to u how can u 10,000 miles away online? It usually does not work for romance but for work it does. So offer a job to ur sweethaeart on CS and u may see. But just travel to have a look and a blablabla - no.
... diligent work, improvement and development can move us forward.
... Friendship and love pull down limits and borders.
Thanks Ateh. Life has never been easy for me (and I know for a lot of us) but I continue striving not just for me. Not thinking of only Now but also tomorrow.
Nah, I can't find someone close to me right now. Something to do with restrictions. And I guess, I still have commitment to a lot. But if the special someone will go beyond borders then, I am willing to reconsider.
Anyhow, have faith Shay, things will be better for us as I truly know how it feels to send portions of what we earn to our loved ones.
Blessings planted...blessings sowed in multitudes!
If you care for someone then by all means go for it because you can work out something between you if your serious about each other. The only thing is since I am Christian I would want a Christian woman.
The simple answer is GO FOR IT it's a beautiful world we live in ...
You sound this morning little sad! A?
If someone hesitate to contact me only because of the distans, this would mean that we are just not for each other and better not to start something that is doomed!
True love does not know borders!
Send you a bit of my good mood!
Good point noted. Hope you'll be blessed with someone who has same faith/belief with you.
"Some" are hesitating po, but those who cares, do not. Yeah, where we are now, the gulf could be a very big factor... but I reckon it would not for friendship. That's what I am doing, building a good friendship and take it from there.
Good luck po sa inyo. Alam ko po may idea kayo na gumawa ng blog na ganito, nasabi sa akin ng isang taong care so much for you. Di ko na lang din po kasi maitago. May mga bumabagabag lang.
I know that, but even that can be fix with a bit of efort don't you think so? And if you do not have feelings for a person will you go be with her/him just to be in a safe place or have his or her money? Wtf thats not love at all.
Opps, I am not talking about marriage Bandido. Just an initial contact (email, chat, etc.). I know you know that. Marriage is still far, I would at least be knowing someone better and deeper before I get married. Because as much as possible I would not jump into something that I know I am not ready, and that I will just fall out.
Yeah, I am going for it. Always going for it. I am not really that shy.
Yeap, that could be great when he likes you enough to defy borders and distance ...
Nah, not sad Snez, just contemplating about things.
Good point you have.
And may I add, when first contacting a person, its getting to know each other is the first step, and not jump into something serious immediately. I have learned that. And if friendship is established, then we could be clear of our boundaries, issues and limits.
It's easy to have anyone but what the heck..that is not for future with a night stand adventure.
I like the way you write and explain
Not worrying right now Laz, as I don't have potential partner. I have a very close friend but I am lucky that we have clear limits. And I do love it that way. Its fantastic so far. (You know who you are).
Yeap, I do understand your point. I have seen so many situations like what you have describe. My Aunties and Uncles for example, come seas and high waters, they succeed defying the distance and living together for 20 years and more.
And as what Ariel has pointed out, also money (for trip and others) could be taken into consideration. But as we say, we can do anything if we really are established and would be willing to take risk. For me, I will. As long as he will be willing to do his part too. We can meet half way.
Listen to your heart!
It takes so much courage, effort, faith, risk, determination and so on to have and get the love that we want. Its just a matter of how we pursue this love or stay back out because of hindrances.