From where I am

Okay, I am from South East Asia and currently in the Middle East working for my hard earn cash. I've got reasons why I am here and to those close friends, they know very well my story.
I am NOT born with the silver spoon in my mouth. Hardship is not a word for me. I work diligently and enjoy my earnings as much as I do and give portions to my loved ones. Oh, that's me. NOW.

My question is, Would you hesitate to contact someone you like in here because you take consideration of his/her location?
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Still, I do agree completely. Thanks. beer
Lazly, I am well listening to my heart. love

And as what someone would tell me, D, ALWAYS!
Shay, thank you for asking. I am doing real good. A little exhausted because my job has been keeping me busy but everything is fine.

Now that i have the opportunity I want to say that you are one of my favorite people on this site and i really enjoy your blogs and your great pictures! You are a beautiful young woman!
Choco, I do wish you good luck. And may the new door that has been open will be an entrance to a more joyful and amazing life you'll have.

Yeap, moving on as always. Never giving up.
Thank you Ed. Its a joy to have known you also here in the Blogs. In any way possible, I contribute to the betterment of myself and for others. Thanking God above that I have the opportunity to help and share what I have. I may tired a bit but I can rest and still continue.
Ah ok, Max. You just sound riddlish to me. Now I get it. grin
Shay you are not alone. And thats the beauty of it. As for the location, its a question only the love drunk brave can answer. Personally tho, for as long as he accepts to travel then it wont be an issue to me.
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Shay I live in Bahrain , next door to Saudi so I know what type of life you live very well. If you are a nanny or a housemaid or work in a retail shop , or even as a nurse , I understand you have a better income than at home in the philipines, but you miss out on a nice life , especially in Saudi.
I would make contact with guys outside of your area exclusively, especially in Australia, or NZ or America because this could be a better life for you with freedom and good potential.
Look for philipino guys in these countries rather than locals , so you have someone with your own culture who you also can understand. That way you can kill 2 birds with one stone, find a decent man and get a better life . remembering the salary of workers in those countries is 5 times as much in ksa, nothing wrong with wanting to improve your circumstance. Saskia
When there's a will, there's a way. Simple.
Did anyone notice that Hammuck is missing for days on blogs?help

Where he gone dunno confused
uh oh pssst, don't tell anyone Lazly, it's a secret OK? I kidnapped him devil



Nooo, don't believe me please laugh I think he's fine Laz, just bit busy with his personal things out of CS grin
Papermate, hi. wave Thanks for the input.

There's a lot of us, doing what we love doing. thumbs up

I could be the "love drunk brave" in the future. Surely, I will.
Shayteddybear
My mind says no, but i'm a bit of the "against all odds" optimist, so, given the opportunity, probably yes.
Morgen, you want it all and NOW. I do understand you or may I say trying to. You made your point, no LDR for you and it is very clear, as clear as the blue sky here today in Hael.

Just one point, hope you know the word independence (for me and for women as a whole).
Saskia, Hi. Greetings to you in Bahrain.

Yeah, I do earn more compared to what I am getting in my own country. And you are correct, I can earn much, much more, in other countries other than KSA. But at the moment this is the best that I can have and I don't have complains. I don't plan on sticking it here forever. I have plans. I have set time, to go out and explore more. Just a little more time.
Willem, thanks for the simple and straightforward answer. thumbs up
Sure, it's not a prison i'm offering.
Probation rather laugh

No problem, i'm a good partner.
Her and me must make each other happy though
or else we batta forgeeeet about it.

This should be clear after not so long,
thats why we stay together a few weeks first on the first visit.
Not talking one way ticket on the first meeting.

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Friendship accross the miles is a beautiful thing. Embrace it, as I know you do Shay! If you get to know someone well enough, or even if you think you could do with some company on a holiday, then a meeting can always be arranged. We are all adults here, right? Not kids in a school playground. Life is for living.

As has been pointed out by many people, relationship or marriage is far down the line, and is not even worth a mention in my opinion. You would be taking huge risks to leave your country or even continent, leave your family and culture, to try a new life with someone you barely know. I say that because I think until you have lived side by side with someone for a good while, you don't yet know them. A few exciting meetings, a week or two here and there, you don't know the other person. I'm not talking about anyone specific here, just a general thing.

You know exactly where you stand Shay, thats one of the beautiful things about you kiss
Yeah Laz, have not seen Ham for days now. Guess, he is busy on things he needs to be occupied about. He'll pop in when he feels like. He'll definitely get back. hug
Could for that matter be a few meetings before making that decisive motion. My point is: she must be as ready as me.
DW, hug

I love optimism. That's me. That's us.
Hey Morgen, A probation ha. Nice word. Not applicable at the moment though.

No, not arguing. Just stating my point. And I know you understand me (I hope).
@ not arguing was to silvers good comment.

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Silverlining, Thank you. I love the friendship I have here in CS. Embracing it to the fullest D. And I am ALWAYS open to possibilities in the future. Certainly would love to meet someone I like and take it from there.

No rushing, no hurry. And that for sure you definitely know about me. kiss
Oh, okay. We're good Morgen. hug
I know. hug
@ Shay,wave

conversing The great thing about having an avatar is able to do things in everyday life that are impossible to perform.

In my very special case in real life, I have, because of my work, and personal decision, very little contact with people.

An expedition to climb a mountain, does not begin at the foot of the mountain, it starts when you take the first step to begin to train!

You're great, writing parables, it is not as good as yours, but I think that explains my point.

teddybear
Willem, thanks again.

As I see it, yeah a lot of sacrifices. Its never easy. And one who would be okay to engage in LDR should be ready in any way. All the hindrances should be hurdled on. I know it is easily said, but really hard when to be put into action. You said it, ... The hardest battles can also give the sweetest victories... thumbs up
Al, good day to you. wave

Glad to see you in here. So you see, you are making contact of us (me) and that's the way to the train.

Me, writing parables is just my way of expressing myself on some things I don't know how to. This way, I hope to be understood.

The trek up to the mountain is an adventure. And we might not know what path we are going to face, long but straight or short but rough. That we will find out along the way. How to find out? Make the first step. teddybear
Good :) Wish you every bit of luck you need for it!hug
Thanks Will. Same wishes goes to you from me. hug
Al, idea lightbulb Fly baby geese fly! grin
Lazly, where are you amiga?!
Yes, Lazly please come back crying I wasn't serious when I said I kidnapped Hammockman, by the way you were not kidnapped, weren't you blues ? sad flower
She will Lach. We are just here waiting for you Lazly. teddybear
I seem to be always late but still want to give my opinion. Yes i would hesitate as it would be fruitless to start something with someone who you would only get to see only once or twice a year if at alldunno
Sweet, thanks for the input. But at least start as friends, am I correct?
Hi Shay & Lachi,

Amigas i just took a brake last night i felt tierd but i will still be around, i can't let the blogs falks get so bored grin

Love you both hug teddybear
Lazly reunion Glad to see you're back hug bouquet teddybear
Hi Shay!

There is internet make it easy. You can skype, messenger, call to phone, call to computers' messenger. I guess it's not the matter anymore. But the distance, yes, for meeting face to face for real, it might be a deep thought.

One more thing, phone call connection from west to Asia, especially to Indonesia could be so annoying.
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