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Jul 2012

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IF ONLY

I do not have all the answers. If I have, then I will know what, when, why, and how something will happen to everybody especially to the people I love. Things happen for a reason, but I can't stop thinking what if things could be all different and some things (not so good things) have been avoided. The words will be, IF ONLY!

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Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Shay amiga i learn to live each second of this life how it is from the time i saw my own death with my eyes, I thank my mother and my father for saving my life i feel bad i can't save his but like you saied God do this things with a reason.

I know he take somehting thats mine but also in return he give me something else.

SpaceOdissey●Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Jul 2, 2012●14 Blogs●396 Comments

Shay What you may consider as not so good thing are more often of a blessing in disguise...it is part of experiencing life!!! it is part of growing up!!! and at the end...it's fun!!!

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

hi Sapce,

Is no fun seeing people hurt or sick, but yah life put us to many test only the strong one survives.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

i mean Space sorry im doing 2 things work on some paper also with an eye here.

viking67●north of nowhere, Nordland Norway

Jul 2, 2012●1,620 Comments

Cnowledge can be good ore bad, it depends who`s got it and how it`s used...

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Good day Laz.

Thanks for sharing your experience. I dearly love my family very much to the point of sacrificing my own happiness. I am used to heavy burdens ... but I guess I cannot carry all.

Alfy_1247●Port Moresby, National Capital Papua New Guinea

Jul 2, 2012●54 Blogs●113 Comments

Nobody's perfect & a perfect life would be a boring life..shay

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Space, thank you. My outmost respect to the people who find balance and still can see the positive in any situation even if its the most direst one.

SpaceOdissey●Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Jul 2, 2012●14 Blogs●396 Comments

@Lazly, all of this depend of your beliefs and your own understanding about what we call life...definitively not what have been suggest by societies, peers pressure and so on..rather by experiences and awareness. But it take guts to think differently from others conditioned people and for often been labeled...

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Thanks Viking. What you said is true, according to how that knowledge will be used ... And even the most knowledgeable person could not find all the answers in his/her life.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Alfy,

. Nothing is perfect.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Shay i know how it is to sacrifice for them but you have to think of your own life to the years will go and you will realise all you done you done it for them. I done this mestake my self lot of years.., anyway i am not saing not help them but try help yourself first then in time if you can help family.

@. Space

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

There are a lot of things I am still wondering. Is my effort, care, love, and support not enough. What more can I give? I do not know anymore.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Don't put yourself that question, first of all your parents are adults and they lived ther life..., they have to help themselfs also, second if you have brothers and sisters they need help also not just you, at least this is fair inuff,on my case i was the big one and the one who sacrifice the most.

Just you need focus of your life Shay that why you took this road and not just to helo family, helo yourself first so you can help others.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Thanks Laz.

It doesn't happen to me always ... but I felt drain. I need a push to continue.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

i meant help not helo

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Shay listen an advice from a woman who sacrifice her life, her marriage and more her bank acount for family and now i realize i didnt recive nothing back and when i need it the most help i was strugeling alone with some friends going up, family only ask help.., but when your an adult you need think of yourself also, they have a home a place what you have?...,

Don't do the mestake i done thats all i say help you first then help them but important is you to be happy then everybody will be.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

For years I have been helping my family Laz, and I am glad I can see the results are great. They can stand on their own (a little help from time to time). The thing is, I thought I have done enough but things happen unexpectedly.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Thank you for the advices Laz. I am all taking them considerably.

bungallow55●Lakeland, Florida USA

Jul 2, 2012●390 Blogs●2,323 Comments

Yes that is the question...WHAT IF.

SpaceOdissey●Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Jul 2, 2012●14 Blogs●396 Comments

Shay...You own to yourself to live your life (self respect)you own to yourself to free yourself (self love)...Please don't waste you time!!! it is precious!!! Don't become like all those people I saw with mask of pain before dying full of regrets to have live a lie and for not having the guts to listen to themselves (their inner self)... We all know when we listen what is the right choice to do and to make however most follow blindly social and peers pressure, inappropriate beliefs and so on... resulting in pain! It is your life, nobody else but yours! It's a precious gift...enjoy it to the fullest!!!

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Bungalow, I am wondering also.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

ok, but are you happy Shay? in life you need learn be selfish also not much but at least to reach for your goals and your happyness without worrys for others, worry just for yourself in time you will undertand what i mean.

Family will always be there, but sometimes in life it wont.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Space, I know I am depriving myself of "a few" of my happiness, I just remember that things will get better at the right time. I am living life, but I guess not to the fullest. I have hesitations.

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

2.Space you told to Shay what a good good friend told me 4 years ago.

Thank you for remind me, i will thank him again for that

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Do not get me wrong Laz. I am happy with what I am doing. Just some little bumps once in a while.

SpaceOdissey●Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Jul 2, 2012●14 Blogs●396 Comments

Shay Read and ponder on those lyrics:

So close, no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters

I never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
And nothing else matters

Yeah, trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters

Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
And I know

So close, no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters

Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
And I know, that's right

Never opened myself this way
And life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
And nothing else matters, yeah

Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters

Never cared for things they say
Never cared for games they play
I never cared for what they do
I never cared for what they know
And I know...

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

You know everybody have that in life, is no person rich or poor not to have bumps in life.

<3

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Morgan, don't be rude some people don't like tell exactly what is the problem for ther own reason and me neither for my own reason not because is a shame but because it hurt to share. Are things that i keep them inside me as i know aren't good to tell... everyhting poeple will always interpret what they see without not think twice of the situation you been through or you are goin.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Ah Morgen, I cannot elaborate more. And there is no need for that. The idea that I can pour my heart out here in the blogs. That some people who (in a way) listen and care is surely big enough to feel fine again.

SpaceOdissey●Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Jul 2, 2012●14 Blogs●396 Comments

Lazly I agree with you however I would like to point out to you that...not because is a shame but because it hurt to share... it's seems you haven't let go off yet! You will be free of it when you can laugh about it!!!

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Space, thanks. I am taking the lyrics wholeheartedly, as I feel like there is something in them which I cannot possibly find in myself right now. Thanks again.

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Yeah Laz, and I am holding on to the railings when the road gets bumpy (that's inside the bus)

shay28OP●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Jul 2, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

I do understand Morgen Laz. No need to worry.

Morgen, I know I reveal almost all of myself here in the blogs but some things I just need to keep with me for a while, then you know I can laugh at it when the time to forget and let go will come (quoting SpaceOdissey).

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Yes! Space you right but are things that you can never laught of them in life even if you let go of them.

Shay amiga here is a song for you, I knwo you have a Pocketfull of sunhine! too ^_^.

<3

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Yess i know Morgan, better talk on private and shhhhh.. your mouth when you talk to others friends also cos i know you call them friends..., but you know what happen here on blogs lately.

, Shay Morgan is still free and i see he lose some weight i still think you two are a nice cuple. Opss my ermanito Sur me va a matar por eso.

Sur ya te exlpico mas tarde carinio no te enfandes tu saves que yo solo digo blanco en la cara.

marlene33●tokyo, Kanto Japan

Jul 2, 2012●738 Comments

Shay,

Ayaw kong mag tanong.nasa sayo kung gusto mong sabihin o hindi.Kung anuman ang mga problema mo...alam mong handa akong makinig sayo.Ingat lagi

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

Marlene i was joking with Shay trying to make her laugh don't take it serios

marlene33●tokyo, Kanto Japan

Jul 2, 2012●738 Comments

@Laz

My comment is direct to her.So,you dont have to worry its not about you Laz

Sorry I wrote it in our language

Im happy you are there to comforting her.Thank you Lazly

Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania

Jul 2, 2012●1,645 Comments

@. Marlene i was refering to my comment not yours i did not even think of yours

This is so funny! i wrote Shay to erase that comment was a bad joke i sorry for that.

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