IF ONLY

I do not have all the answers. If I have, then I will know what, when, why, and how something will happen to everybody especially to the people I love. Things happen for a reason, but I can't stop thinking what if things could be all different and some things (not so good things) have been avoided. The words will be, IF ONLY!
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@Laz,doh it seem like(you and me) the deaf and the blind talkinglaugh laugh laugh hug peace wink thumbs up cheers I thought you google to translate those words I wrote and the result was negative rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing That is why I wondering why you commented that to megrin doh doh Ok I understand laugh laugh laugh lets cheering cheering Shaycheering cheering
Time seems to heal all things....think and pray and GOd will direct you. Peace, Shay.hug
Laz, no comment to be deleted. I do comprehend them all to be of light spirit to make me and us smile. Thanks for being so sweet.

Morgen is a darling to me and to all those who knows him well (not romantically). And I will be one of the happy people to see him find his happiness.
Ate Marlene, I am addressing my reply in English to avoid confusion. Thanks for always being there to cheer me up. You are one of the nicest people here in the blogs who finds fun in every aspect.

The usual crossroads in my life Ateh with some more additional loads. Heavy ... and it is still manageable. I hope.
Ateh Marlene and Lazly, I do appreciate the support from the both of you lovely and pretty ladies. You know how much I would like to be on the blogs having fun with you. Big, big hugs for the both of you! hug hug teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet
Calli, thanks. Yes, I do have faith and believe in prayers. Have a nice day Calli. hug
PSSST,eating corn will can help you with your troubles,so EAT SOME CORN!gotta go back to work!
Hi Daniel wave

Your so funny laugh , Shay i think you have a fan wink applause

Thats why he always tell you eat some corn.., By the way Daniel we love Corn so no problem all thats missing is a big space with a large cauch and a big screan wtih a good movie so all the Cs can relax and enjoy the corn with the movie wink popcorn popcorn
What's this thing about corn Daniel, kind of obsession?
Hi Shay hug

"I love you so I will do it... I will provide... because I can... because I should... and because I love you."

This is a difficult topic. We don't want to see heavy burdens on the shoulders of those we love so we're willing to put them on our own shoulders. blues

There's a balance... to allow ourselves to be helpful but not to ruin our own happiness by sacrificing too much.

The right balance is an individual decision. Many do nothing because they fear being taken advantage of. Many do 'everything' because they've never said 'No' to a loved one. dunno

It's individual... for each to decide. One recommendation would be to help out of love but not out of a feeling of obligation or guilt. Love is a healthier emotion and should flow both ways. Guilt isn't as healthy and often is one-sided.

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Hello Shay,

I just saw your blog just now...I can imagine how you feel when you wrote this blog. I have been like this so many many times that sometimes I would really lose hope. But then, we should not lose hope at all.

You are one strong lady! Have faith and when things go really really bad...it only means that the SUN is not far behind.

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@ Shay : Hi! How are you? hug


I do not want to even think about the words "if only" because it shows that I have done mistake in past and if only I can change it. "if only" also say that we are not satisfied with our life now. The best things we can do is appreciate what we have and say bless for it because sometimes even thought we can have that "if only" then sometimes it might not as good as what we have and got now. [smile}

Sometimes the less you know things, the less confuse and pain you will feel. let life still be a mystery.
Richard, Ate Donna and Summer, wave Didn't able to get back here in the blogs asap. Thank you for the wonderful words.

I want to extend my gratitude also for the support you are always been giving me thru the blogs. 'Though virtually I can feel that I have got some nice people that will find a part of their time to listen and give care.

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Richard, Great to see your insightful words.

Always Love ... we do care because we LOVE, we do things because we love. And I do not regret giving my love to those who deserves it. I may get tired caring and loving (I may need a little rest) but I certainly would not stop. hug
Thanks Summer. I appreciate life and all the challenges it offers. Sometimes a lot could be happening and it seems to dark. There is always a way to everything.

Hope tomorrow will be a bright day for me and same goes to you dear Summer. hug
Ate Don, thanks. The bright sun will always be shining Ate. I could not lose hope, and never will be. Wala sa ating mga pinoy ang sumusuko sa laban. Napapagud pero di sumusuko. hug bouquet
shay wave hug bouquet

I remember one day my father gave me a book of Cinderella's story, it has many pages and it was divided into some different stories. There was only one story of Cinderella but it would end with different endings which depends on which options we chose (every option we took would lead us to different pages). Very interesting book for me, we could choose if we wanted a happy or even a sad ending for our Cinderella story conversing

In reality, it's quite a challenge to choose the options we'd like to take and sometime we even thought we don't have any other choice sigh Some things may go very different than what we expected them to be, but sooner or later, we will learn the answer or the reason behind every experience we had comfort hug teddybear
Hi Lach. wave hug

Indeed in life are full of choices. Choices to be made and to be taken. Its up to us how to take those roads. A sound and strong body, mind and spirit are our tool in successfully making it to the goal. Thank you for being a friend always! bouquet
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