... Not your number 1
As a woman that I am when I go shopping I don't usually buy an item that caught my interest instantly. I may see the item as good, but I often go to the other store in hope that I may see a much better one. And into another store and to the next. Window shopping at the most. And when I had to compare them out, I will choose and decide on what to buy. When I am about to get the item that I want, .... oh no, no size available for me. Even the color and the style that I want is not available. Then, I got the second option. The next option is a beauty but not the same as the first. I also like the second option, but I like the first more. But the second one also is not available, then I will go to my third choice. But the feeling I have, I would not be as happy to get the next options that when I get the best that I like.It is like this for things or ... I maybe wrong. How about in a relationship? Say in finding a partner? Would you settle for one at a time? Or do you keep options ready? What if the options know about it? Have you considered what they will feel?
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At the dating/getting to know you stage, keep as many options as you like, I think. There does come a time if you meet someone though, when you have to be exclusive, open and honest.
i hate shopping, esp when its crowded but every now and then i have the urge to spend something ans also my years of travelling has thaught be a lesson u cant put u life in bags not weighing more than 30kgs, so i give a lot of my things away or throw them out! as for a partner i am picky because i wont settle for sumone that does not respect my believes or value my opinions
Good point you have there Ham.
A Leo here V.
Only 30kgs? Hhmm, we are allowed until 60kgs here. A lot.
Guys would be lining up Choco, and they are ready with the quizzes.
What I did in the beginning when I arrived
in Indonesia was check out the malls and finally
decided on several shops/boutiques that I go to when
ever I want to shop for clothes.
Relationship??? Having a boyfriend is a plus but for
now my children and business are still on my
top priority list.....
Oh yeah, as for shopping? I dont like shopping really.. but there's this nice girl that works at the grocery store.
I do understand the typos.
So you go shopping not because you need to buy food or other things, is because you like seeing the girl who sales the products ..Lmao!
But when are to many what you do Robrt you like them all?
As for a relationship, if I think I find the one I really like and he has mutual feeling to me, yes I'd settle for one at a time.
Do we have to keep options?
Nice blog, shay
Just my opinion, maybe they don't want to be empty handed when the other won't work out.
If we can sense the intensity of the feelings toward each other, that's the point to be occupied by just one. One at a time. I always want to be number one also, not just that, the only one at that point.
Hi Lachica, so I see you are now taken or in serious communication. lol. As for me, I ate some chocolate cupcakes and coffee.. I think I have go number 2 soon. lol.
I like shopping a lot even when i go alone i still like it, i can buy what i like and not give him no explication why i stay so much time, i tell him i was on mall babe and i stop for a coffee also.
shay, I am, thanks. Waiting for mom to come, it's the day she spend a night at my place. I cannot go to sleep yet until she comes