... Not your number 1
As a woman that I am when I go shopping I don't usually buy an item that caught my interest instantly. I may see the item as good, but I often go to the other store in hope that I may see a much better one. And into another store and to the next. Window shopping at the most. And when I had to compare them out, I will choose and decide on what to buy. When I am about to get the item that I want, .... oh no, no size available for me. Even the color and the style that I want is not available. Then, I got the second option. The next option is a beauty but not the same as the first. I also like the second option, but I like the first more. But the second one also is not available, then I will go to my third choice. But the feeling I have, I would not be as happy to get the next options that when I get the best that I like.It is like this for things or ... I maybe wrong. How about in a relationship? Say in finding a partner? Would you settle for one at a time? Or do you keep options ready? What if the options know about it? Have you considered what they will feel?
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Wish we really could find that so called "true love". And that we could tackle the hindrances and live happily.
and do want to have children one day
Oh well, so much for real love.
The secret maybe should be strong enough to fight against all those temptations. And would firm to stand on the integrity and word. And that could lead to love everlasting.
and at my age , if I have to have someone then she can be Slim , slender and petite , and pretty ..and as I said , I can stay single ..
Lach, I can see you are already not around. Get well soon Lach.
HOWEVER, when it comes to shopping with my g/f things change. I love going with her and just being with her. Talking and smooching and looking and smooching! I can't get enough of the togetherness thing. We'll buy a bagful of chocolates, or an ice cream cone or having lunch. I give all of myself to that lady.
Since my interest is still in Japan I still do the single irresponsible single man thing. I do the quick shop thing I explained in the first paragraph. As soon as she gets here well then the second paragraph thing happens.
My feet are small so I have difficulty finding shoes, even Indonesian standards or branded ones. The one suits me are always shoes from Malaysia and Singapore with more expensive price than the ones can find here. The problem is do you still buy a shoes here when you found it has your size and cheaper but you are not really like it?
Maybe that's why I'm still single.
Very sweet of you. Enjoying the company of your woman when she is doin her shopping. AWWW! That's real sweet. Good luck to you and your Japanese love Ed.
Here I go again with my metaphor and countered-metaphored by the ever smart Alonerdo. What I understand, never settle for anything less. Settle for the best!
Never lowering standards, that's the way for you girl. We are all like that (in a way) I guess. We want something (in this case someone) who we love and that would be ready to accept us for who we really are. And not settle for the lesser type just to get a "shoe". Get what you want and enjoy your item. Good luck to you Summer.