If there is love then your shortcomings don't matter
There is a child inside each one of us, our ego does not allow to come out, but comes out in front of the person we are most comfortable with.
Diwali is one of the main festivals of India. We celebrate it with great pomp.
Wishing you all a very Happy Diwali.
There are two main things in spirituality. one for inside deep unconscious mind. and another for the outer conscious mind.
For inner deep unconscious mind:
Stop reacting to your feelings, sorrows, pleasures. Start observing.
For outer conscious mind:
Give to others what you expect from others for yourself. And don't give to others what you don't expect from others for yourself.
Spiritual logic is very short and simple.
Because of the reactive nature of our unconscious mind, there is always turmoil inside us. Our whole attitude is influenced by our inner reaction. The habit of reacting is what makes our personality good or bad. This habit of reacting is out of our control. We react very little outside, but in the unconcious mind, the action-reaction goes on for 24 hours from birth to death. Even while sleeping, unconcious mind does not sleep. There are only two reactions in our unconscious mind, attraction and repulsion. The drama of life is going on on both these reactions.
If unconcious mind start observing instead of reacting, then the whole problem will be solved.
The whole struggle of spirituality is on this matter how unconcious mind started observing instead of reacting. This stage is called "inner silence", where the mind does not react.
The whole essence of spirituality is "inner silence".