First Date
What do men and women notice immediately on the first date? Ofcourse, physical presentation matters. For example, I know women do notice shoes that men wear.Interestingly all this noticing is done discreetly without the other partner knowing about it. Specially WOMEN tend to be better snoopers. Small little things matter the most sometimes. (I do admit sometimes apprearance are deceptive though)
As far as I am concerned, I notice neatness first. Then the way a woamn carries herself naturally. Also, It tells when one is pretending to be someone else and not being herself. Plus I do notice the intellect that reflects through the conversation. The grey matter does matter for me!
What do you guys notice? please share your thoughts.
Comments (38)
first thing i notice is his smile or what hes wearing as an aftershave...shoes dont bother me at all...
2nd- the finger nails if it is clean..
3rd-The smile, the teeth
4th- the way he dressed up, have some cologne
5th- table manners
6th- confidence, the sincerity.
through conversation you will know some part of him, I am not judgemental person but there is a saying. WHAT YOU SEE WHAT YOU GET..
Yes the body language and gestures cannot lie. I gree. Cos most are subconciously done. A person can not fake them persistently.
Sincerity has different meanings and interpretation. Sincerity to his words,actions and feelings etc.
Yes you are right, being on time showed that he has a good manner, not keeping the woman waiting.
For me I never give my words and promises if I will not or I can't do it. Before I said yes, I always make sure that I am sincere with every words I will say.
I never pretend nor try to pretend whether it is a first date or not. Be at yourself.
Yes. I agree chemistry works. In fact it's the only thing that matters in the end. I believe it starts with the VIBES (if you believe in it) that make you comfortable with certain people. Then, chemistry comes in, once you have started interaction.
I don't know how it happens. But I agree it does happen. Also, I know it doesn't lie. No one can prentend vibes and chemistry. It happens when it happens.
You are right. Now that I think of it more, Chemistry has actually persuaded me to have bad judgements, but Vibes have always guided me right 100%.
Beware of the Chemistry Natelee
instead if steak knives...toothpicks,bingo markers.
And probably had mp3 players and Nintendo's.
What a remember the best was when he stuck up for his friend Nessa from SA.
She may have been the instigataa at times, he da peacekeepaa.
Was something about darth vader clips at youtube..
observations in general.
There's a lot of, what's the phrase..
Not hit n run..
without real intention.It seems one extreme or
the other: gentleman or player.
And Palms too.
I was not feeling it from just this nibble.
I agree totally, with many of the attributes
that you have expanded on.
Which, BTW, you have.
He is rare and missed obviously, as you will be.
person I hoped to see the big picture, because
the comments were brief and gender based.
When max showed up it was mare like ojj here comes that forum guy.. lol.
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