THE ONE I WANT AND THE ONE I LOVE TO BE WI

I WAS ON THE SITE A WILE BACK NOW AND I MEET SOME ONE VERY SPECIAL TO ME AND BEFORE WE NEW IT WE BECAME VERY CLOSE LIKE LOVERS AND I DEARLY TRUSTED THIS LADY AND SHE IS THE HEART OF MY LIFE DAY BY DAY WE STUCK TO A PROMIES THAT WE WILL STICK TOGETHER ALL THE WAY ON TILL THAT DAY WE MEET , SO EVERY THING WAS GOING GREAT IL BE THERE FOR HER AND SHE WILL BE THERE FOR ME EVERY TIME TO CHAT ... SO EVERY THING WAS GREAT BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN CHIRSTMAS PARST AND SHE CONTACTED ME AND SAID THIS IS NOT WORKING I NEED A MAN NOT A BOY BUT FOR KNOW APARENT REASON SHE WAS BLAMING ME WHEN I REALY TRUTHLY LOVE HER AND I WAS BEING A MAN SAYING WE WILL MAKE THIS WORK AND WE WILL HAVE A FUTRUE AND BE A PROPER FAMILY AND SHE WANTED THE SAME SEE IM THINKING DID SHE REALY LOVE ME AND CAN I TRUST HER NOW AS SHE IS SAYING GIVE ME TIME ????
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I think you should turn your caps lock off. And if it's broke, you should get a new keyboard.

For her to just come out and say something like that without reason(assuming you said and did nothing to instigate a change of mind, which I doubt), sounds to me like she's not either one: Not altogether in her right mind, or two: The reality of the situation finally hit her. Long distance commitments are extremely hard on you both emotionally and mentally, and even physically. She might not have known how to handle it after all, and didn't know how to go about it. When people don't know how to express themselves, they default to a bitter approach, it's a defensive measure for self preservation. You met on a dating website, you have to keep your hopes down, and your head on your shoulders, or you're going to end up being very disappointed.
Many advice me here earlier, if u based a relation just by chatting over the internet what can u expect. Arrange to meet first and arrange when and how to do it.
Unless u want to go arround in circles.
Hellow, I read your Blog and I agree with "solost82",long distance relationships are emotionally,mentally, and physically tough.Trust me, you are lucky coz she atleast contacted you!

I met somebody online who was alot older than me and we became very very good frenz,(no romantic inclination,atleast from my side) but on one cold Christmas day he went to Ireland to visit his mum and some frenz,on the way home from a party his wallet, phone and coat were stolen .......so he walked home....thru the snow!!He told me about it the following day.....and he was really down with fever , cold etc...........he said he would call me on New Year's Eve.........but that day never came......Till today (that was two years ago) I wonder what happened to him.....
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