My wife is crazy

Samuel, I feel the pain for your situation. This is provably a blessing in disguise. My advise is ; follow your inner self and take action. Divorce is definetly the right course if you and your wife are not soulmates. Your son is important, but you come first! without you been happy your greatness will lay dormant, therefore you won't be able to pass that greatness to your son, everybody will lose. most important is to find your soulmate, your God given woman, the one that will complement you in every aspect of your life.
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Good luck
Sal

I'd let her go and make sure that you have visitation rights - get a lawyer. This has happened to me twice. Once it is over, you will feel better. Just be easy on yourself.

Unless, you were hurting her, then she has no right to leave and if she does, she is abandoning you which will not look good to a judge. Plus she also has your child.

I'd say it's time for court. I would not like a person like that in my life. In fact, she may be doing you a favor. You hopefully will find someone else much better to you.

Then also get into a sep/divorced group. It's hard for your friends and family to understand your feelings. You go through 5 stages, shock, anger, numbness, solution, then freedom to lead your life again like you want it.

L

It is understandable to feel hurt but she is calling you so I guess if I were you I would say I loved her also and ask her why this has happened.

I would not advise you or your wife to make any final decision about the relationship just yet. You have an opportunity to talk about things and maybe reconciliation with marraige guidance. Even when a relationship seems beyond hope, it can be fixed in some cases. It is up to you both now to try work this out. You both should talk to close family and friends who know you both for their opinion. I don't know how old your son is, but he may be of an age when he does not really understand what is happening and should not be involved in taking sides or advice. Children are children. All he needs to know is mom has left for awhile but you are sorting things out. In other words you are telling him what he needs to know only.

The very Best Wishes to you both. This does not concern anyone really except the two of you no matter what advice is offered on here.

too difficult

Hi Samuel,

I'm sorry about the situation you are living now, but I think the best thing to do is divorcing your wife and keeping self-respect inalterated: If you don't love yourself first, you cannot be happy in any relashionship.
I wish you a great, happy future with your son.
Be well!

Having read advice since my last comment, I disagree Divorce is the way to go right now and urge you to try to detach yourself from the raw emotion and try to keep open communication with your wife with view to solving the problem and reconciliation. But this really depends on you both and you may have some difficult moments along the way, but if you are both committed you can work this out. If not and I think it could take up to a year, you could aim towards an amicable separation. I also think it important your son knows both parents love him and it is not his fault. I am sure you would not say otherwise as a parent.

Sorry your hurting but she seems to want to keep you in her control. Remember your son do what you can for him, as for her, she left once she'll do it again, move on and be happy.

Nobody here has the right to comment on what type of person she is or what her motivations are. The woman is unable to speak for herself and this is someone's marraige people are commenting on. At the end of the day these 2 people must do what is right for them.

I agree with Medsummer

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