Disappearing profiles

Disappearing profiles,
What on earth is wrong?
Is it me?
Im not psycho I dont stalk, I dont get over nosy and ask improper things.
I talk for a bit and things seem to go very well and then *poof* profile gone or hidden?
Im starting to get a complex.
Look.... i just want to meet a nice man,start as friends go from there.If you dont flippen like me, tell me its not a match but you dont have to disappear. I invest my time as well to get to know you. I DO have a life, and this just hurts.

Sorry , i had to vent.
Im feeling frustrated.

Thanks for any advice........
Cheri
sigh
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I don't have any advice. Just know that you're not alone. For me, the profile doesn't disappear, they do! moping blues confused dunno
Thanks Texasgirl......its helps knowing Im not alone.
Dear Cheriboo. .
Be patient , u have taken a very good start of trying to be friends.
So,dont let these awful people get to u.
Just take a deepbreath,be calm like nothing happened, heads up, smile, and start again.
Good luck Cherry
Good that you chose to vent it out. Yes, I agree it happens. But then that's how most poeple on CS are. Quite ironic though, but this is the reality.

But.....it doesn't mean at all that there is perhaps something wrong with you. It's actually the fake people who disappear when they fear their real self would be revealved. So you should be proud of yourself that your genuineness forces the fake people to disappear. This is a gift you have. So rest assured they won't be able to take advantage of you.

If they disappeared, they weren't the ones meant for you. So it worked for your betterment eventually. What if the same wrong ones stayed for you and didn't disappear, I'd say it would be a rather worse situation.

So relax, enjoy and be positive. There are some real good people here as well.
Wow,some very good points. Thank you so much. Its true I need to relax,brush it off. And its also true that who ever they were, was all lies and now they are gone ,and I am better to be rid of the fake. But it hurts all the same.
Cheri,
At least they will write to you. I can't anyone to even acknowledge that I wrote to them. I guess courtesy is a thing of the past. But in response to you.....it's their loss.
Rick
maybe your just chatting with the wrongs one to begin with...but there are also shallow people here on CS
I'm sure you will have one that won't disappear. Just keep going.
Luck escape for you love. Don't sweat it. They can't handle genuine folk ^_^ wave
Wow gurl i'm so sorry thts horrible =( Well yea i bet it does hurt when guys do mean or hurtful stupid things..but think of it this way that's just a early sign that They weren't worth your important time and thank goodness they didnt waste anymore of it! You seem sweet and caring and remind me of me a little bit haha =) Well Keep moving forward honneh! If they poof then let em! There r way 2 many hottys n nice guys on here 4 u 2 get all sad n depressed about a few idiot ones =) good luck hon! need 2 chat as buds ever? Lemme kno jus add me or watevz =)
Kay.

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