A sad story

that's too sad... but try to be strong!

tks dear, i m strong otherwise i won't be able to type this. tks

You are stronger than me.... if me... keep strong! you know i learn one thing, we cant expect other people love us coz all human are selfish, all we can do to make ourselves happy is to love ourselves and take care of ourselves, love your life, value your life,

But hard....you know what the right for you and what the right choice for your life....

if you have to choose, please choose long term happiness instead of short term happiness!

i wish you all luck.... the sun will shine in your life again... do not worry..

sounds like you have made a decision already?

Yes i do made up my mind with no choice, as i want to move on that i was thinking i have to. He's not in my country anymore and i will not leave my country ( for long term ) . So ..

i wonder why is it so hard to get someone to agree to a divorce. especally when theyre not in the picture anymore and were the ones who left to begin with?i think my situation is that she thinks i want to fight over the house and the junk thats in it.i say junk becouse nothing is more important than my happiness and she can keep all the material stuff we amassed.i just wanted to get it over and done.so do what you must and get it over with if its what you really want. i know its what i needed to move on. no strings attached.

Been there done that. It actually took me almost 3 years for my divorce to go through so I know how you feel. This coming April I will be divorced for a year. I am still trying to find my Mr. Right. I haven't found him yet but I hope to very soon. Hang in there dear. The sooner you get divorced the sooner you'll get to move forward with your life and be free again.