Why does women keep disapearing

Some of the above mentioned could be possibilities...OR....a common excuse of game-players that wanna be chased to kingdom-come by having multiple msgs pop up for them so they feel popular. If they do respond a few times with short insignificant msgs of nothing & no substance, they just want a guy's attention until other flattering compliments come from others & their game repeats itself with another round with different people while you're left behind. Plus they probably get a laugh out of it. But what amazes me is....when they do find who they THINK is right, & her (& possibly kids from him) get left & abandoned (from all her games earlier in her life of dropping possibly good men) now she's crying wondering why it happened. AMAZING.