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Shallow men

I am trying to find a good man to share life with. But would love to know why MOST men have to be so judgemental and or shallow? If you're not a "perfect 10" you're not good enough for most men. Do you jusdge a book by it's cover? NO then why should looks be judged by just the outside? dunno
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Live2Flower
Live2Flower●Kennewick, Washington USA
Feb 27, 2010●30 Comments
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I know they do...and I'm sorry but women do the same thing. I personally don't....I try to even throw away the first impression....due to nerves and take the second and third...unless there were huge red flags.
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mountainangel24
mountainangel24OP●Sylva, North Carolina USA
Feb 27, 2010●2 Comments
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I know women can be the same way! Like you though, I try to throw out the first impression.
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Feb 27, 2010●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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This raises a question for me (regarding men and women being shallow). Are we shallow, or have we been sold a bill of goods by the movie industry and society that we need to feel electricity, bells and whistles when we look at someone? We all want to feel "in love"...but that is a lot harder to find than being able to just love someone for who they are.
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Smitten
Smitten●saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada
Feb 28, 2010●23 Blogs●528 Comments
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beauty is totally wholistic..inside and out and those that only see the outside....totally will be lonely, desperate, unhappy souls in the end......

cheerz to you....
u will find a man that loves you for you.....just kik those shallow boyzzzzzzzzzz to the curb.........oh ya........

smitten
cheers
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Irish_531
Irish_531●Presque Isle, Maine USA
Feb 28, 2010
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I think everyone has a certain physical type that they are attracted to...1st law of attraction...especially with men. No one has to apologize for that. But in the end, most men opt for a woman who meets their needs. Don't confuse immaturity for shallowness. You will find your man if you keep looking.
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mountainangel24
mountainangel24OP●Sylva, North Carolina USA
Feb 28, 2010●2 Comments
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I am not so much even looking anymore, if it happens it does and if not then so be it.
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Feb 28, 2010●1,442 Comments
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think of it like this since everyone is so shallow none of us have to worry about drowning .banana
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yellow1
yellow1●London, Greater London, England UK
Mar 1, 2010●9 Blogs●109 Comments
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they say a picture paints a thousand words but no one should judge anybody though I feel....
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how1e
how1e●NRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Mar 1, 2010●7 Blogs●346 Comments
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Well of course books are selected partly on the basis of their cover and not just books. We are all susceptible to advertising, women are often particularly shallow when it comes to brand names, designer products etc. And obviously we all make judgements....coming from a country where you cant watch TV for more than 10 seconds without a commercial break and where "superficial" is part of the national identity you must be aware of this.
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Musicman99
Musicman99●Chanhassen, Minnesota USA
Mar 2, 2010●142 Blogs●403 Comments
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-I'm sorry. I know what you're going through. We men get a bad rap for being 'shallow' but in my opinion women are just as shallow. When you were 25 would you have considered a man in his mid 30's? Probably not. What goes around comes around. Those same women who were once way shallow are now seeing what it is like being the older one. Sorry, but we all struggle with this.
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billyod
billyod●cork, Cork Ireland
Mar 2, 2010
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the problem is that everyone judges by your pic and not take the time to get to know someoone and really find out what a person is likedunno
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yellow1
yellow1●London, Greater London, England UK
Mar 30, 2010●9 Blogs●109 Comments
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shallow men probably got issues.......
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