" with Age A Different Mind Set "
I was in a relationship for 19 yrs , from the age of 23.We have two beautiful children.When I look back at myself, I can't believe it was me. He was very lazy , I done everything in the home even decorating. He never liked work ,I've supported him many a times when his been unemployed. He never took me out , he never brought me anything. Everything I've ever owed I've brought myself. I worked two jobs at one stage. He would rather spend his money on PlayStation & Games , Gambling, Decks. It was me myself & I where he was and still is concerned. We had never been abroad, the one and only time I saved & payed ,as I wanted my kids to experience it.
You probably wondering why I stayed ? I ask myself that question?. I think as we get older & Wiser , We find ourselves. I've become much more relaxed & Happy within. " I know who I am & what am about " & I know my worth".
I Haven't gotta tell anyone that I'm Decent, Loyal , Kind , Loving, Honest , Have Morals & Dignity Because I Know I Am & That's All That Matters.
I'm an empath & have always helped everyone all my life.
It was the best decision leaving him & starting a new life. My kids were happy we split, they always said you deserve a better life & why was I ever with him. There's no bad blood & we remain friends, but I look at him and wonder what I ever saw in him. He gross's me out. LoL
I've never been happier in my whole life , I have a beautiful home & a rewarding job. Just missing my forever companion, Lover ,Best friend.
I will not settle for anything less then the best , I know my worth, I'm rich with Love & Peace in my Heart.
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You stay because of the children & used .
But once the kids get older you realise you have nothing in common. & it's so refreshing to know that I had the courage to start a brand new life.
I'm proud of me
Ozzy Osbourne said it's never too late to cry.
You have wise children. Your future looks good too,
and now you know what you don't want.
I know a 56year old whom is at her second guy, they have one 20y old son together,
and now she is prepearing to exit that one as well.
So chose wisely next time. Take your time.
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You like it or not, here lies the problem.
You are chasing a shadow and shadow can't be captured.
Do inform if 'that best' is caught hold of and you are settled.
All the best!!!
More then likely you find a slightly better twin version of your ex. Men are mostly lazy and selfish and compete in beer belly circumference. And it doesn't get better with age. They might give up their hobby but usually not their beer. Just my penny.