Wide-Open !!!
During the short time of my life span , the little experience I've got by visiting online dating sites , I've noticed some interesting facts ..One of them is ,
The use of the word "OpenMinded" on the profiles on a dating site !!
Initially , by the mention of the word "OpenMinded" , we usually think of the Definition as " A person , Who is Intelligent , Wise , Enlightened , Adventurous to Explore and Learn about New Ideas , Flexible enough to Understand and Cooperate with Differences and Disagreements , Who can Balance well between Analytical Logical Practical Brain and Emotional Heart " ...
At least , this is suppose to be the Ideal Definition of the word "OpenMinded" , Right !!
But...
When it comes to the Profile Description of an Online Dating Site , the whole Meaning actually change 360° (in most cases) !!!!!!
On a profile , on a dating site , if the word "OpenMinded' was mentioned , then (most likely) it actually means that ,
The Person is Open for a Relationship , Without any Boundary of Trust , Loyalty , Commitment , Responsibility and Legal/Social Validation...
Let's say it straight forward ...
The Person is Open to have Extra Marital Affairs or As many Affairs possible with Multiple Partners at the same time side by side , in most cases ...
On the Contrary ...
If you Ask The same Person about their Preference to Choose someone as their Partner for a Stable Long Term Relationship or Marriage Or to Start a Family with ,
Then Surprisingly (most likely) , you will find that , The Person is Not Open at all to Accept someone as a Partner , from Different Race , Different Religion , Different Culture , Different Economical Status , Different Age (Specially for a Male it'll be Not Acceptable to Choose an Older Female as Partner) etc. , in Most Cases !!!
So...
Now , whenever I see the Word "OpenMinded" mentioned on a Profile on a Dating Site , I just feel totally confused that ,
What might be the Real Interpretation of that Word , for the Profile Holder !!!!!
Comments (6)
off grid like this friendly and gifted English Hobbit here.
This is about the lifestyle I'd like, but I "could" settle for a normal house,
as long as it has charm. Like an Italian house for instance.
Let's grow our own food. Do things with our own hands. Build
and be close to nature. I'd also do some welding on cars as a side thing.
As long as I'm out of a city, that's the main thing for me.
Gotta have a partner thou, who also don't mind being partly rural.
How about the nearest town a 20min bicycle distance away, that ok?
5 Years Living Off Grid Building A Sustainable Smallholding
Literally Open to the Nature !!