What if you keep finding the True Love
Well, I have been reading about True love, The Soul Mate, The One for Me, and stuff like that. My inquiry is what happens if you keep finding the true love and it has stuck with you like magic glue and you need to get out of that relationship and what is the proper etiquette for it. Despite many claims that I get to read, there is not an easier thing in life than finding a woman who falls in love with you and want to stay with you forever. In general, first you go along with her emotions and stay with her and try to give yourself a little respite before you embark on finding the new one. During that break of yours her love blossoms and so as your worries. The nature of things is such that inevitably you need to move on but you need to find a way to communicate this to her without using a single word. It’s your incessant worries that help you find the most convenient way for making the exit before committing the biggest blunders of your life, such as signing on a stamped paper or hearing such news that you will be a dad soon. However, you are running out of time to keep avoiding these prison terms. That’s where the fear helps you. Nature comes to your rescue and gives you its innate tools to survive this latest True Love of yours and to make you reach the next milestone in due time. Without any compulsory effort you start acting irritable, feel lethargic, regard tardiness, take fewer showers, perform pathetically poor in bed, sleep forever, and make her do all the household work. In no time your True Love in her own little world will begin to think her decision all over. Instead of getting a bad news from your side, one day you will be asked to part with your lifestyle for a moment because she has something important to say to you. All of a sudden your whole being is rejoiced and you are beaming with your customary smile not seen in the last few weeks. You look very attentive and a great sense of surprise in your eyes awaits her words. She says it all…………and you clutch your fist with mouth agape, myriad emotions reflect disbelief, but you are a free man now nonetheless.
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Miss. Venus….If indeed there was true love….all verified and well calibrated….I am running away from that exact monster
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p.s...good try though......2 friggin funnnnnnnnneeeeeee.....
Sincerely tho' you are a man who has perhaps not realized how rare you are. Could it be that the women you choose are not as enlightened as you are?
And if the answer is yes to these questions there is still no blame as you chose to be in the relationship. period. No one held a gun to your head and forced you to stay with someone who acted out in all of those ways that hurt you.
You chose it, so who do you blame? You would have to blame yourself and isn't that a waste of good masculine energy? We are the creators of our experience and we must take responsibility for that. Even if it was done from a totally subconscious or unconscious place, we must see how we created it to learn something about ourselves. Otherwise, we are completely powerless and victims of "out there".
I permanently deleted that blog. If there is a way that you know of to retrieve the comments I would be happy to know and then forward it to you. It was quite lengthy and as I am not one to fiddle too much with my writing, I doubt I could duplicate it.
Suffice it to say that when a man is able to stand in his strength a woman will worship that strength in him and give him the kind of love that can only be imagined. If a man has been damaged by all the women telling him he needs to be emotionally sensitive like her, then there are two energies constantly changing, emoting with no one holding the space.
I don't know if that makes sense to you but it is the short version of what I wrote.
Sans the Venusian.
And there is nothing illicit in a proper right man getting under my skin literally.
And these fatal flaws really never showed themselves before you became seriously involved? Or did you see them right away and think, "oh that's okay, I will just change her as we go here".
We all do it to a certain extent. The first blush of "love" is so hot and we want it to work out so badly.
I must say, the relationship that I have recently exited has been such an experience of learning about myself. It was not a crazy psycho relationship but one that showed me via him (as the mirror) where I still needed to heal and what I still needed to see. There has been some drama and emotionality through it all, but it was an amazing journey! I have just grown in ways in which he is not able or willing to join me. And I am not willing to go back so we must move on.
"I love you!" (eye lashes batting, pleading look on my face) hahahaha
"Do you love me?" (sorrowful puppy dog eyes with a hint of wide eyed desperation) hahahaha
That should do it.