Men's Complaint
I have read many forums that complain about how women are on here saying they want a good man. One who's honest, trust worthy, loving, romantic ect ect ect. Then when a man contacts one of these women they never get a reply.Well, the one's who don't reply are looking for someone who makes alot of money and looks good too. Some of those women are fantastic looking and of course they know they deserve someone who looks almost as good as they do. Problem, they have no personality.(I am sorry if I have offended anyone. There are some fantastic looking women who do have a personality, too. Men, grab them if you can)
Now, I have talked to several men on here. They all claim to like my personality, my accent (the ones who have talked to me on the phone) and my pictures online. So, to make sure they all understand when I say I am not a bikini model, I have put up a picture showing a full body shot. Some quit talking right away. Makes me wonder what happened to my personality???? Chatting does not mean we are a thing or that we are going to date. It is just chatting. I never think more. Now, there have been a couple that I agreed to meet in person. We sat up to meet at McDonald's or the Mall (a public place, they don't know if I'm a psycho or I don't know if they are.) so it was a safe place. This was on two separate occasions. Both walked in (they forgot I had seen their picture) and when they saw me they turned around and walked out. Neither one knew I saw them. Because when I chatted with them the next day I asked what happened to them, they both said they got tied up with family. When I told them what shirt they had on when they walked in and what they were driving, they had nothing to say.
And both of their profiles said they were not looking for a woman who was skinny. I'm not faulting them for what they are looking for, I am faulting them for what they write on their profile.
No one seems to be able to be honest. I try my best to answer those who write me. There are a few I haven't yet but, there are red flags all over them. They are not from the USA and they ask for me to make an msn id that only we can chat on. Red Flags.
So, men when you are complaining about those women who don't answer why not try the girl next door. They do clean up well and can look good in a dress or skirt.
Comments (6)
Both men and women want chemistry in a romantic relationship. I don't think this makes them shallow...you can't force chemistry. People have their preferences, and that is life. I know you said that you understood this but I would just continue to be honest before the first meeting. I am sure there are men out there who would be glad to meet you. Not everyone has preferences for a skinny gal.
People like this will not bring me down. I feel sorry for them. There is much more to relationships than the looks and the chemistry works on more than looks also.
But, as my momma taught me, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Thank you for yours
Perhaps they felt it was an awkward situation, but you are very right that such behavior is hurtful and wrong. I guess the only good thing is you found out they weren't the kind of people you'd want to know.