WHY

How'd you know they take it for granted when they have a good man? Are there still good men in this world?

why do always mens saw their reflections to womens???
And they will started to asks bout it??
For u...why do mens taking for granted us womens when u are already with us!

WHY DO WOMEN SAY THEY WANT A GOOD MAN AND TAKE HIM FOR GRANTED WHEN SHE HAS HIM!

Bacause it is in the human nature..!!
Men also do the same thing to women.!!!

How'd you know they take it for granted when they have a good man? Are there still good men in this world?

Dear EmilyYan
OF COURSE THERE ARE GOOD MEN AND ALSO WOMEN, IN THIS WORLD !!
I HOPE YOU FIND ONE, SOME DAY !!
UNFORTUNATELY IT IS A MATTER OF LUCK!!!

Thank you, makis822! I am just confused about the definition of a good man, because some women seem to be greedy you know.. maybe that's why they take it for granted when they have already have a good man, they think there are more better man out somewhere.
I'm sure you are one of the good men.

well i agree with the poster; basically the only extended relationships i have had (including my marriage)--once the woman "had" the man; their attention waned. it was like they had "acquired" you they were no longer interested, it was as they like to say "the journey". and now the journey was over, they had other things to do.

women will say men do the same. and i realize "today" in the west at least gender is largely non-existent. but i do believe at least historically there are differences between men and women and these differences are the primary division of life.

of course my experiences (as the posters) are with women and those quite naturally he (and i) would say: well this is one of the things

women do!

cuz...she's a beeeatchhh...... thinking...yup....

I am afraid it is partially the curse of the normal and partially our society today. The Curse of the Normal simply means that women, like men, can and do get bored with things. Women, like men, enjoy the thrill of the chase and the adrenaline rush of the hunt. Problem is, once she has you, that all settles down and life becomes normal again. Who knows why it happens. Maybe they like the thought of being chased after or chasing. Maybe they set their sights on a particular man who seems unobtainable and once they have him, the allure is gone because there is no challenge.
Our society plays a part in this because we are all about instant gratification now. We want what we want when we want it and nothing less will do. Men and women are not into things that take time anymore, it's like going through the drive thru in a restaurant. Get what you ordered, pay for it and be on your way. Why do you suppose divorces are up as high as they are today? It's because people have lost interest in developing a lasting relationship and want instant gratification. There is no attention span anymore past a few dates before the mystique is gone and it's time to move on. I know it, I've seen all too many times. Just go to a local bar or club known to be a "pick up" spot and you will see what I mean.
People get bored with the known and are fascinated by the unknown and unfamiliar. If they can get it and get it fast to satisfy a desire that they have quickly, it's a win/win in their minds. To be sure, not everyone is this way and there are still plenty of us around who believe in taking time to nurture a relationship and watch it grow but there is an alarming number of those as I have described above. Best thing to do is take your time and ask questions. If she seems antsy or wants to start something right away, you have one of the people I am talking about and you shouldn't waste your time. Hope that gives some perspective.

As we all know, we've all got good and bad and sometimes we get stuck in a rut and the bad is lookn worse than the good. That's all, we have to keep remindin ourselves about the good we see in our partners and ourselves to keep the balance.

I just had a man do that exact thing to me, so it isnt just women..