All women are the same, everywhere!

Why be bothered whether the girl you are not interested in replies or not? And if you are interested in her, why not show a bit more confidence and generosity?

Be patient, my friend.

@dearnlovely

Thanks for your comment. Be sure, if I´m really interested in a girl, I will be confident enough, to express it.

The reason, why I post this blog, was a girl from Poland. She have a nice profile, very stylish photos, but a bad picture voting.

Without any doubt, she is an attractive woman, but not my style. I just wanna let her feel good, so I send her a nice message.

To me, it has to do with education, to say thanks. It shows me her character. Sorry, no matter, how good a woman is looking. It needs more.

Why that girl is hanging out here, if everything is okay with here? Why is it not working in real life? No wonder, if she treats human beings like that. Just arrogant.

hi,
Ouch... I think u hit me too..lol

Befor i used to reply in evry single mail or flower sent to me by other members...
But these past few days that my mind was floating somewhere,i ignored those things...
And keep myself n work and others...
Juz open them this morning...lol
Sorry guys...

And to u, maybe they are also have some reason not replying to u....
Anyway u cannot force them to reply yeah??

.......if i responded to everyone that sent me mail...when could i blog.... ...lol.......

@shellOne

Sorry, I don´t get you!?

I know, what i want. At least 95% of the mails I receive, I´m not interested in. But I answer them all.

Hello?????

Are you living behind the mountains???? You think only men are looking for the one thing? What do you think how old I am????

Dondadda, I'm not sure how long you have been here, but you are not the first man to query this.. First off, women receive far more mail than men do, and due to that, it can take a while for them to read and respond to them. As to why they do not respond, to put it simply, they do not find you attractive. The reason for not replying is that many did initially respond to men saying they were not interested, however, this resulted in them then receiving abusive messages, and because of these low-life's, women, quite understandably, keep there distance with those the are not interested in (remember, lots will log-off site to read your profile, so you have no real knowledge who is viewing you). The only exceptions would be those they know more about on the forums... As for Smitten, you should read her profile, for she has already met someone.. And no, it is not me, though I have also met someone here.. so do not lose hope, but you do have to learn to not expect a reply from every message you send and try not to take it personally.. Have a great week..

@Yash124g

No, Yash, I don´t take it personally! No, way. Maybe, you get me wrong.

If I´m really interested in a girl, I will write her that. I´m not to shy for that.

But in the case of the polish girl, I wasn't interested because of different reasons. I just wrote to her, that her pictures are very tasteful and stylish and that I couldn´t understand the bad voting. I just wanted to feel her good.

Sorry, to me it´s just arrogant, not to say thanks for a compliment. So, what´s the result? It´s just waisting of time! No more compliments in the future. The girls won´t appreciate it.

@alfibarios

Yes, my friend. Take it easy. That´s why I like Greece so much. Always easy going.

You use the rihgt word: fake world. But it is frustrating, isn´t it?

i use to believe that we r very few left, gentlemen i mean. think .women say thay like gantlemen and they want to be with one ,but all i have understand about women till now ,is they dont know what they really want.
i am more german on my eactions and style than a greek but thanks for ur kind words.stay her if u like and make some friends.virtual but friends any way.
they can listen to ur promblems and help u.and u can help them too.have a nice time on CS.dimitris

Gute Nacht und einen guten Schlaf mein Freund

lol, probably the same reasons you and I are. lol

Hope!




You just never know...

Hang in there freind!

@ don, im not single, u r....

wait...and im german....

@dön

Oh,good morning first!
If u think that im from the mountain,well thanks...but in the mountain we used our common sense...

If the man didnt reply to me,,
Ther is reasons..
He doest like me..or she is busy with other women...

If u men have the same style like juz only saying hi or hello..
Then the women will get bored and will not response to u..

Oh,btw,, i think u juz have ur own insecurities...
We womens..its not our obligation to response ALWAYS to mens mails or flowers
In this site..especially those 'strangers' for us!

I have experienced the very identical thing that you are talking about. i would respond to all messages just for the sake of being polite if nothing else no matter their age or build or how they look. i am also the type of person that likes to give compliments with no intent behind them other than just to give a compliment. There are 98 percent of the women on here that wont even respond or even so much as a thank you i understand that some are only on occasionaly and some dont always check their messages daily and some dont come but only every so months or so. but i do not believe that the ones that i just listed are the majority of the women on here i think the ones i listed are the minority on here. i think that there is no exscuse for the majority of the woman on here to be so rude.

one...don t you think it s kinda crude to shear all Women over the same Comb ? And Education has nothing to do with replying or not ..Manners do..and free Will..desire to.. intrest.. ect. ect. ect.

Life is full of dissapointments ..learn to live with it like the rest of us..
plus not everyone on this site is looking for a Mate..

and for YOU to think that just because YOU sent a msg or Flower anyone has to reply...THAT in itself is ARROGANT sooo maybe that is the reason why I am here ? becaue I think German Men are arrogant and selfcentered and what not ? WRONG !!! I don t see nationality or color or race..I just see ppl..

to u mr.brucerryork,

We are not rude here! We are just explaining our side for mr. dondadda or to other mens here whose experiencing the same way of treatment from womens...

"iN this virtual world, live with No Preconditions and Less Expectations.."

"being polite is a good traits,
Being judgemental is inconsiderate!"

@ Don, trust you don't mind me directing your own question back at you.. Why are you hanging out here if everything is okay with you?

there's nothing wrong with you.., you're just very kind! and not many people like you on this planet

Maybe all women are different, but you have remained the same

Yash124g that is a great answer on the first page of responses, that you gave.

Honestly - I think if someone doesn't answer you shouldn't take it personally. Sometimes it just postpones the inevitable. Don't let small things annoy you - there are much bigger things to worry about in this world.