Why show yourself??????

Who knows that the picture you show of yourself is you? Is it years ago? Nobody knows really! I dont put a picture on because I want people to know me, not just what I look like. Please tell me your thoughts
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I agee but you had to put a comic picture on, Why? What you see isnt what you get at the end of the day. Looks, personality. it is the person within that actracts you at the end of the day. Looks helps but it is not everything lol
i personally dont think a pic is important.....and to be honest, when i first started here, didnt have a pic....and i found the love my life here, and he feel in love with me, didnt need a pic.....and i loved that, meant alot to me....he loved me for me....without even seeing me....but also believe, each their own, pic or no pic.....preference...shouldnt matter as long as you are comfortable...cheers
mmmmmm - I don't know. If a person is looking for a romantic partner, the determining factor is going to be physical attraction. Otherwise it will remain a friendship.

If a person doesn't see you (and especially if a man is viewing a woman's profile), more often than not they may pass it up.

It is silly to put a pic up that doesn't represent you. Once the person sees you, if you are not as physically attractive as your fake pic, they probably won't ask for a second date, don't you think? Not to mention, the lying part of it would be a turnoff to a healthy-minded individual.

Of course, if your pic is nice, you are going to get lots of responses from people you would never consider dating. (unless your pic is fake, in which case, you might take whatever you can get, hence the reason for the fake pic in the first place).

It's not any better to be liked for just being attractive.

"I would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not"
@Murny..agree 100%thumbs up head banger
@Billy..great sense of humor..rolling on the floor laughing
Why ask such a stupid question???????

And why would you put up a fake photo if your trying to find someone to meet?

Is it just meconfused
Even if you looked like a super model, I don't think I could handle the conversation you have to offer.
opps. Sorry.

I should have said, Why ask such a question? We're looking for a "MATE". You need to get a biology book before you start this dating idea.
Hey, I just read your profile. It says your looking for someone who is not afraid to say what they are thinking. Maybe we're a match!
oh mikey...playball
smittens don't back out on me now. I've taken a lot of heat sticking up for youteddybear

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pics or not pics
I dont care i accept all as long as humans! Lol
it will be your first choice, u want the man will find you out or you will look for a man by yourself using search tool, without photo as per cs website's advice, u may miss 50% of chance of finding out your soul-mate if u also like to look for s.o here.
I got news for you. Men shop for a mate with their eyes first.
Then, if you pass that test, stage 2 is to get to know you.
If you post no picture, you are essentially romanticly dead in the water.
If you post a false or old picture, there will be no second date.
That's reality. Good luck to you. sad flower
I agree with the last three posts. Blogger, there is your answer.
A picture worth thousand words.
And just to make sure that you get the full package. What if you see only the picture in the profile but nothing to describe him or herself . even the fake picture can tell more about the character. I don't have a picture here because I didn't take this website seriously and I'm not brave enough to show my picture blushing dunno
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