Cyber love? What's it all about?
Daily I read blogs and posts about people professing to have had their hearts broken my unscrupulous characters or occasionally by the supposed love of their life – without ever physically having met the person - it really does beg the question, Can you fall in love with a Cyber partner? And how do you define a cyber boyfriend/girlfriend – are there rules or parameters?Perhaps it’s my cynical nature but the idea seems impossible to me, surely the nearest one comes is perhaps falling in lust with a perception or creating a persona to fill a void . But actual love – that’s a tough one, now I know love is blind but how do you feel chemistry over the interweb?
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not doubting the validity of the emotion just the reasons behind it – I’ve a couple of people on here that I feel I have become close to, for different reasons. There’s one with whom a romantic connection with would be no doubt pleasant and I think I could easily fall in lust, if not love and yes be hurt by them if the feeling was not reciprocated. However, actually seeing them face to face would be a very necessary part of the journey.
Another purely fills a need – I don’t know what he looks like, but he can talk the talk with the sexiest damn accent – and for some unknown reason I trust him totally and that makes things very interesting ;-) I have no intention of actually meeting him and maybe this is why I can be so open with him.
Finally there’s a guy that if not Mr Right, could well be the right guy for right now … but we’ll see.
But a cyber partner? Still think I need some convincing …. What’s your cyber story?
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One day I got e- mail and in it was you.
Charming, sensitive and so debonair,
I strongly resisted it go anywhere.
But letters and stories captured my heart,
Filled me with passion almost from the start.
Love on the Internet, how could it be?
These things just don't happen to people like me.
But doves and butterflies flew into our lives,
Carrying messages we could not deny.
Each person has meaning and love to express,
And we could deny our hearts nothing less.
It's a beautiful love that has grown between us,
Something beyond any words we discuss.
Much deeper than LOL, cyber kisses and such,
Far down to our souls, beyond human touch.
My love's not confined by what it can see,
I feel you, I taste you, I experience your dream.
Close my eyes, and I envision what in my heart I can hear,
"Love knows no boundaries, no distance, no fear."
It's the soul that captures God's love in a way
That eternally melts hearts together to stay.
Fused and sealed forever as one,
Love has its way and new life is begun.
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