Unknown
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Jun 2011
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what matters most?

what would you prefer,to become a lover or just remain friends?what if they are friends before then they tried to become lovers but sad to say its not a succesfull.would you allow him/her to interfere in your life again?
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vangelia
vangeliaOP●cavite, Calabarzon Philippines
Jun 5, 2011●52 Blogs●392 Comments
#1
for me i cant allow him to interfere in my life again bcoz the damage have been done,you hurt each other already just like a wound there is scar already,like a crystal jar there is cracked or broken part already.
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african_single
african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait
Jun 5, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments
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I don't think I would want that person to be part of my life, that would always remind of the time we were lovers, and it may influence any future relationship I consider ..

It is pretty hard to keep a friendship of that kind ..
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vangelia
vangeliaOP●cavite, Calabarzon Philippines
Jun 5, 2011●52 Blogs●392 Comments
#3
i agree to you!its like you hit 2 birds in one stone.some people say,its better to lose a lover than a friend.
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african_single
african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait
Jun 5, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments
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I have lost a friend because of a lover years ago, it pained me more to lose that than losing him .. but I thought about it and said to myself if that friend was a real friend she would never have done that damage in my life ..

Sometimes it is not good to let someone gets too close to you, it is nice to have friends but we always should be careful ..
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vangelia
vangeliaOP●cavite, Calabarzon Philippines
Jun 5, 2011●52 Blogs●392 Comments
#5
better to remain friends forever!actually this is my own experience too,trying to cope,trying to help myself to bear a painful experience.hope to forget him soon by the help of our almighty god.
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Swissblueeyes
Swissblueeyes●a lake, Michigan USA
Jun 5, 2011●2 Blogs●709 Comments
#6
I think part of the problem in todays world is tooo many women give their bodies out to a man who does not love her.
Then the lady wonders why she isnt finding a guy who will marry her..Well helloooo..If we all stopped giving into men so easily then they might have to become less lazy and consider having a real committment..sorry if my post sounds harsh but i get so tired of seeing women complaining a guy doesnt love her but she gives her body out to him??? You cant expect a better outcome just because you slept with a guy..I wont be a so called lover, fwb, or f buddy to some guy who doesnt love me..As a matter of fact I wont do it at all untill there is a real committment.
I have too much pride and respect for myself to do that.
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vangelia
vangeliaOP●cavite, Calabarzon Philippines
Jun 6, 2011●52 Blogs●392 Comments
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i respect your opinion.what i mean in a relationship is not on giving yourself away easily maybe in your culture but in my culture is different,we dont give ourself to any man if they dont marry us,that's what Philippine's culture about.
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tonyxf
tonyxf●werribee, Victoria Australia
Jun 8, 2011●1 Blogs●31 Comments
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You girls are making me feel terrible. Seems if a woman dont give she dont get, and if she gives, she lose anyway. Or have I got it wrong?
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