Thoughts about the good times with the ex
It's just over 2months since the ex and I split up, she doesn't communicate with me anymore and the only chance I c er is she she drives past, she has moved on with her life and I still love her and am stuck n a rutt because I'm finding it hard to let go!I've tried getting drunk! Being with a diff girl and keeping busy but I still think about the ex everyday!! I angry because the 4 years we spent together was a waste and now I know she never really loved me which hurts the most!
To b honest I don't know if I will ever get over this I am struggling so so much... Can ny1 help?? Plse
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here.. have a beer
Past is gone .Try to live in the present and have hope for the future. It seems to me you love her still but if she does not ....what can you do. Everyday, is a new day and a new beginning. Some one might come your way and brighten your life. GOOD LUCK !!!!
You may not forget about her...you have the memories of the two of you. But you must move on...even if its easier said then done & some days are harder than others. Time eventually heals.
... they are all trying to get u off your ex so that they can have u under their own tooth and nails...
when u are outa cash, u'll be punctually dumped in the bin at the earliest possible, don't worry bout that.
You have to make your own choice. It's either you let go of her and move on with your life or don't let go of her and be stuck in the same miserable situation you are experiencing at the moment
It's rough for sure, and I don't think you can just get over it, or forget about it ever happening. I do agree that you need to think about the flaws in the relationship, especially if she never loved you. You deserve more than that, and I am sure you will find someone even better.
As a girl, please don't do the rebound thing...you are just hurting over people too!
Anyway, best of luck, and hope you are feeling better soon! I promise it does get easier!
2 months isn,t a long time, take the time to get to know yourself again as a single guy, she is probably hurting too but sometimes its easier to pretend otherwise..
ps, take up a sport, it helps
These people are giving you awesome advice and I plan on using some of it myself. I Wish you the best and stay positive and move forward.