Dealing with depression

Two years ago my doc said I've a mild case of depression then my life was tumbled upside dwn the girl I was with for 4 yrs decided she had enough of me and wanted to move on so that made me fall deeper into depression. Each day is a battle for me I don't want to start taking medication I want to get thru t on my own. Some days r great and some r v bad today is v bad I was out drinkn last nite and of course that has done no good. Has any of u guys been thru this and f so is dare ny easy way ou or to deal with life?

At the mo I've no purpose in life I can't find a job and just so dwn

Looking forward to ur replies

Thanks
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darren
don´t try to get tips here on dating site.
Disorders / and depression is one of the most widespread/ must be treated with experts. Except antidepressants which are necessary to take are other alternative natural remedies and psychotherapy.. all necessary to set up your new lifestyle which helps you to live average life. Depression is average and treatable. Find a specialist who will take care and helps you to get over.
Good Luck! good luck
hi baby

ok first of all stay away drom meds and drugs.....ok

next find some work ... focus on that

make sure you cultivate your friendships . they are your treasures... they will help you through this . .

work on your self ... your diet your shape exercise ... your personality and how you appreciate others . . try to be more healthy every tomorrow in body and mind . .

lastly . . .keep an open heart and a open mind to having a close friend (and lover)

ask me anytime
ACTUALLY DEPRESSION IS A GOOD THING IN A WAY . .

BECAUSE ITS YOUR SOUL ASKING YOU TO MAKE SOME CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE
and promise urself not to feel sorry for yourself...okwave
Darren, kindred spirit, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. most sincerely, and you can trust me even though i am on a dating site. I hit an all time low, DUI, suicidal, the works. Drinking will not help, and if you're not dependent, quit while you can. I tried a variety of meds before i found one that worked. Also, I looked into my family history, and there is depression on both sides. It is a missunderstood illness so it may be tough to get accptence from those you love. Still, there is support out there. It is very difficult to deal on your own(in my opinion), strangely, I am grateful for the peeps on this site that who amuse and entertain me.

Usually i'm goofy and silly, but you've touched a nerve, I'm all nerves about this.

If you ever want to talk.

Sincerely,
Lookylou
perhaps your suffering more from a broken heart then you are depression??? both might feel similar but at the end of the day are not, one is more serious then the other or so me thinks.. maybe all you need is revenge dunno if so??? then why not break her windows devil
How ironic..... some people cling to their loved ones when they're depressed, whilst others push their close loved-ones away.

I've experienced the latter and there is no way to convince the depressed person to trust that you really want to be around and support them. So, they dump you instead. dunno
work on your self ... your diet your shape exercise ... your personality and how you appreciate others

Yes, besides work a little improving your English spelling so guys like me, whom English is not our first language, can understand you better. comfort
Hi! Darren there are million of people out there with some form of depression been there myself mild like you. I would feel down for a day or two and get so fed up with myself in the end I'd go outside get stuck into working around my house turn the music on and within a few hrs I start to feel better within myself.

Keeping busy is good for you stimulates the mind and body I also find going to the local recreation center for a swim spar and steam room always feel fantasic after a work out, if you aren't a water baby the gym gives the same results. Plus it is good to be around lots of people giving out positive energy. Last spend lots of time with friends and family hug comfort You will get better as time goes by and this will be you all the time very happy
Hi Darren! I'm sorry for what you experience but anyway is this all deserve your health and your life? Look forward, you will find someone else who deserve your good health and your love. Take good care of yourself, wake up earlier in the morning, go take a deep breath of fresh air, go to take a bath, comb your hair, look for a job and have a good life. Smile more and up your chin. You'll find her and you'll know what I told you is right.


hug
Summer
I've been through a severe depression which turned into social phobia. needed the help of a specialist and medication to help me in the beginning.

I don't take medication now, I do sports each time i feel I could start to get down again, and I (try to) keep my mind with positive thoughts. Not always easy but I'm still alive and full of hope and projects for my future.

Keep fighting, do sports, don't drink. Life is beautiful.

Good luck
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