My 2 cents..... if he really loved and cared for her he wouldn't give a hoot what she looks like during her workday. Although, he would lover her to dress up and look great socially.
If he only sees her as a trophy/object/look-what-I-found piece of meat, he'd want her to look great all the time, for HIM.
You are Soulmates and whether in the physical or not, you are ALWAYS together in spirit... From the other side, He might send you someone to comfort You, until You meet again.
Life has become so fast....we hardly ever stop to smell the roses. A little gratitude and humility would make such a huge difference. I guess the less we have, and the very little we afford to give away: is more highly valued.
Sometimes it's not anything material...but just a simple smile or kind gesture towards anyone, even a stranger, to show them that someone still cares. That insignificant thing, could change their day or their life....
He couldn't exactly do much....but what a feeling of comfort. We must never underestimate our four legged friends..... He's sitting in my lap right now....as usual trying to catch the sguiggly thing moving about on the screen!
I had read a book with details and pictures a few years ago. Very sad... and very horrifying to be in anything like that.
Yet...from these horrible accounts of such incidents, I guess we get to learn, that from the skies down, nothing and no one should think it/he or she...as invincible. I feel that it's an arrogant way of looking at life.
People, if you want a good laugh and reassurance about your perception of the other gender read: "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" (Allan and Barbara Pease)...
How ironic..... some people cling to their loved ones when they're depressed, whilst others push their close loved-ones away.
I've experienced the latter and there is no way to convince the depressed person to trust that you really want to be around and support them. So, they dump you instead.
Some people who are depressed do NOT want help. Even more so, they push their loved ones away, and treat them cruelly. They'd rather wallow in their misery then let someone in, then let someone love them. Very sad..
I guess the best balanced is to be Loved with Respect to each other's boundaries. That's what I find healthy. Fearing the other is not.Fear is the opposite of Love.
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RE: Love is blind
Infatuation is blind, Love is a conscious choice.