How can I make the positives I'm my life work for

I know I have a number of talents and in theory I have a fantastic future but that's theory...,., in reality i am struggling, I can't find work, a woman to share good times with and the way things are going I'll never to able to go on a holiday. Is there anyway I can better myself and be somebody because I have been a bum for along time now....,,,
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Darren,did you know that two posatives will repel each other ???professor doh cheers
Darren,

That struggling and being a bum will always be with you if you continue to nurture them. Unless you do something about it, you will always remain the way you feel right now....doh doh
You wrote one blogg pretty much on the same line yesterday and there were so many positive feed backs on it...Act now if you want to change your life and the way you feel....doh doh confused
@Darren,god gave u two hands to work,a self realizing mind to think and two legs to find a job matching your qualifications, dohthan still you are 'Bum' it means you are not labourious.first find a job and then think about further step. comfort
Darren, practical q: have u 100 copys of ur cv at home now?
If not, make them. Every day u take 5 and u go to businesses in person and ask to see the manager.
U know, just for fun. I bet u will feel more hope. Hope is good.
Good breeds good. I belive in positive spirals. One positive thing leads to another. But be patient still.
I think you have already started , you know you wan to make changes , next step is to work out what changes they could be . Move, study , travel , anything that changes the pattern you have in your life . well thats my theory , lol
Morgen u are extremely right,u know that i did many jobs before my present job like a restaurant manager,private teacher,home tutor and even diamond assembler.But i always worked with my competitions for a permanent job in parallel and today with the blessings of my god and guru i am in a safe zone and still i am not satisfied with my present achievement as i am sure that i can do more and achieve more.Although i was having my own family business but i prefered to make my own achievements,what i would have done if i would have assume for myself that i am not getting through exams.So i think positive thoughts and labour and zeal to fight for victory counts,and then only god will reward us .So darren thumbs upfor ur efforts.
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Hi. In my life I've known some hard times. Although I was not to blame for it, my outlook and view of the world was fear based and left me isolated with many of the unhelpful emotions you mention leading to both depression and retreating into heavy drinking which only accelerated the problems.

My point here, is that we all inhabit the same world but see it in different ways, some of which can be self destructive.

Now here's the rub. I found that I did not have the mental capacity, objectivity or information to think my way out of it. I am not a stupid or uneducated man, but that is a fact. I needed a lot of counselling and it took a lot of time but it is worth it. So I can only suggest counselling and if the alcohol is costing you more than money, then go to AA. They will certainly give you the tools, the courage and the strength to face your demons.

Good Luck and best wishes.

GG



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