Is their anybody?

I'm starting to wonder if I'm wasting my time. Nobody is even interested in getting too know me. I send a message & its like they delete it before they even finish reading. Mabey its me, idk. What am I doing wrong?
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nothing comes to those who sit and wait ...get to it and make an effort ....or go and cry about it crying crying crying
nothing comes to those who sit and wait ...get to it and make an effort ....or go and cry about it crying crying crying
Assuming your messages are simply a nice hello, then there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Women get a great many messages and most simply do not have the time to respond to all of them. Take your time and be a little patient. Also, I took a look at your profile and photos. Nice looking young man but clean shaven might help a bit. Also, drop all the references to control. Talk about some of your interests instead of things you don't like such as showing skin. Include the music you like and what hobbies you might have and what your personal goals are (such as education or work goals).

A person your age really doesn't need a dating site to begin with. Join some hiking groups or other special interests groups where you can meet someone. Believe me dating sites are not a short cut to finding someone.
@ModestMouse420: Try to change your style of writing dunno , maybe say something interesting next time ..

If you sent an email saying "hello how are?" 90% of the times you won't get a reply roll eyes ..
And use the spellcheck! Good luck! wave
its not you,1 out of 10 might answer,just keep the frist one breif,mention somthing about them,keep trying but have fun, dont worry if no one answers,it happens to me all the time,but keep going;;dancing teddybear
just viewed your profile.. And me thinks, nothing's wrong with you.
Be patient, mate comfort
Hey man. How are you? This online dating is no walk in the park.
In fact, I think most of the profiles on here are fake. There maybe a few real ones, but you have to sort out the trash. confused I agree with Houston also. Alot of the women
will just play with you online because they can. Good luck man.
ok this is from my point of view!i looked @ ur profile: u stated unemployed so that is a big no no, and ur pics u are taking is only head shots no smile, nothing that indicates u go out, really a smile attracts ppl trust me i get lots of mail just cause they saw my smilegrin
10k he wants to meet girls after all so has to consider their opinion, not yours laugh rolling on the floor laughing
@jana

he needs coaching with no secondary, hidden agendas! ... that's why he ain't need 'em girly advice snooty

aside:

Then again, I'm A man in me head, THE man in me pants and a girl at heart they told me! (ahemm .. ahemm .. that ain't no lie, yono .. uh oh )
10k if you men coach each other you d never been successful with us laugh
* you d never be
420 means he is a chronic dope smoker. He has no job and loves playing video games. And then he wonders why no one is interested in getting to know him.doh
Not trying to be hard on you kid, but priorities do matter. Maybe try a profile name like, ModestMouseworkinghard.
Hi, Mouse!

Enjoy your fun time here. Relax. Go around CS more often, join the blog, forum, etc and meet a lot of new people. Sometimes when you are speaking in public, women will know you better and know how your thinking about something.

Good luck!

wine
Summer
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I'm Tom. I love music, and chilling. My favorite shows are on ADULTSWIM. I love Mexican food. I hate swimming. [read more]

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