THANK YOU!!!

thanks belly
we are willing to help readily as long as we can but uhhhmmm

Ya...before I sent money, I asked my other relative if she's really in a hospital

do not be too good....people will come back asking again and again and again....cos you are so easy

Not sure what you wish to accomplish here, perhaps you would like to ease some of your frustration for not having been thanked for helping out with money? The only thing I can offer you is my humble opinion. I believe that when we help someone in need, we do it from the heart, not expecting anything in return, because the satisfaction of helping is good enough to makes us feel good. Now, since you have helped more than once and this person is your sister in law, and since I haven't read your profile I am assuming that you're here because you're single and you're most likely talking about a woman that's married to a brother of yours? Therefore, your obligations to this woman are pretty much minimal, so I guess you're done more than enough for her at this point and I think that it's time that your brother steps up to the plate and her immediate family as well. She must have parents, sisters, brothers, besides her husband. So, my advice to you is to now instead of helping her financially, maybe you can put her family together and have them help her out like it should be and perhaps you should let them know that you would like to get repaid as soon as they can, that way you are able to help out again in the future. At the same time I think it would help if the family can help her out with some medical insurance. I hope that she is not suffering from anything serious that may be threatening her life.

@geminiintheusa






I really really love your very humble opinion.
Im not expecting for any return with them although I helped them financially before not only just when he was in the hospital. I did that because of my brother and I love my two niece.
I am avoiding this situation, that someday I am looking for any return from them....I just wish that they could stand up and step out.
Maybe if I need also help from them not only financially, I hope they are in beside me.


Sometimes we dont know how to manage depression and stress...and maybe we have poor memory to think.

Thank you geminiintheusa