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You make me feel confuse....

I send a message to my (bf), just greeting him a nice morning...
For a daily routine, he will send it back a message too me also...
But that moment is really different (i didn't receive anything)
I let him, (Thinking that his very busy and forget to greet me.)

At night still, (i didn't receive anything... for a whole day)
10:00pm i start to feel worried, i send him a messages try to call him but not answering his phone.. no message from him also...

Till the next day morning, I'm worried so much ( that the first time happen )...
so I send a lot of messages and call him many times....
Finally at 8am i receive a message to him....

Telling " I enjoy your companion, receiving your lots of text message and 16 missed call make me think,
I think we need to be a part not for one but two of us...."

He just simple broke me into pieces....
For a reason that i don't know....

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Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

Never, never show a guy that you need him that much. You will come across as clingy. Always let him contact you first. And when he does contact you, don't respond immediately. Make him wait, he will be puzzled though. When you turn the tables on them, they don't like it!

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

So sorry to hear Kakko!

Similar things have happened to me too...

Belle, shall we play that stupid game forever? It seems so...

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

Yes we do Jana. Because that's the way men are. The male ego is often overinflated.

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 3, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

oh....never,never,never again....I'm sick of it noh...for broken my heart many times,,,,thanks for the advice,,,

yurikaGignac●jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia

Nov 3, 2011●18 Blogs●30 Comments

right,,,i feel hurt so many time...but i learn from that feeling and make me strong,,,let the guy beg for ur love,,,u deserve better,,,u show u care but if the guy wasted it just leave him,,,believe it that god not blind,,and karma will come,,,there is a lot of guy waiting for u to open ur heart,,,

nevica●beautiful, Gavleborg Sweden

Nov 3, 2011●21 Blogs●332 Comments

I agree, the man just felt suffocated with your attention, I would, even if I am a woman. many people need a lot of space. You have to learn to be patient. if he doesn't answer and not interested any more, you can't help with many calls. he would come back himself when he is ready.

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 3, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

this is the very hard one "trying to forget him, is killing me much"
his asking so much =(
wondering what the reason why he did that...his frustrated at work and busy ????or what? third party? he didn't say anything,,,he just left me confuse...

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

If he doesn't call he is simply not interested. It may hurt to hear and I have been there so I do know. But guys are simple. Stop looking for other reasons. He's not worth it anyway.

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Kakko, I remember now that I have had similar experience, but it was me that suddenly got "silent". So maybe I can give a possible explanation for your bf's reaction.

Once I was late to reply to a man and when I was about to reply him, I saw that he had left heaps of messages, every next more angry and whining. Those messages annoyed me so much that I stopped communicating with him.

(I must say I didn't really like him so it was a good excuse for me, too.)

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 3, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

were been good together...
we had lunch together last weekend, i just received my present from him after his vacation.. we do miss each other...

but today is blash and shut me off....

You can't blame me to feel worried to my guy, i just care...
and perhaps never happen this...just only now,,,,

i the issue is i annoy him so much...sorry is acceptable not a break up......is solution....

breaking me up knowing my birthday is next week...hay.....

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Kakko don't get frustrated! Maybe it's some temporary mood from his side... Be patient and let's hope for the best

Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico

Nov 3, 2011●1,830 Comments

Jana, You are a sharp woman and nobody's fool, I can't see anyone dumb enough to try those tricks on you . Even I behave when I talk to you ( that should tell you something ) . . . . . .the tainted troll . .

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Thank you Frank! But I start thinking that men fear of me

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

Jana those are what I call wishy-washy men. Actually they are not interested in a long-term relationship. Join my club, lol. The ones I like are not interested in anything long-term and the ones that are and like me, I'm not attracted to.

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

Whatever. Some people are just made to be single especially in these times when men more than ever don't want to get married. I'm enjoying my single status though. No responsabilities and no hassles such as worrying why he doesn't call me!

Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico

Nov 3, 2011●1,830 Comments

Jana, Men fear you ? . . . .

.. . .Only the ones that need to . . .

. . . .Just remember I love you . .

. . . .so be carefull where you point your wrath . . .

. . . .the tainted troll . .

sweetkitten4●Brighton, East Sussex, England UK

Nov 3, 2011●92 Blogs●471 Comments

kakko I agree with Jana and belle. With my last boyfriend one day he was late and I got worried so I text to see if he was ok (he's diabetic and sometimes had a hyper, that's the way he described it to me). Anyway his calls and texts got later and later so eventually I decided not to chase after him. He started to call and text on time after that for a little while and then started the old game up after I refused to let him move in as a solution to problems he was having with his landlady's son and a work colleague. It was shortly after that that I went for a walk without sending the usual good morning text and leaving my phone at home just so I could decide whether or not I wanted to end the relationship. Which I decided I did. When I got home and checked my phone he had left 2 messages wondering why I hadn't text him and asking if I was ok. I text him back ending the relationship and he replied that he had been thinking the same thing. The point I'm trying to get across don't chase after him or any man. If they're interested they will get back to you. I know it's easier said than done but get on with your life, get out and meet new people.
I'm enjoying being single at the moment and who knows if we stop looking that special someone might come into our lives.

alexlopes●samnaun, Grisons Switzerland

Nov 3, 2011●2 Blogs●36 Comments

Sorry you got hurt Kakko .But it seems its over and by text message .Dont know if youre far apart but he at least owed you a face to face conversation and a explanation .Most of the times men are either yes or no when it comes to a relationship but there are times when we dont know where we are at and need some time to think things.But if he did like you he would probably say he was up to his shoulders in work or something keep some distance and figure it out .Asking for time a part is more cruel then ending things and is a selfish way of handeling things .So are you suposed to wait in this time a part ?What did I do ?Maybe I didnt give him space?On this last one if he didnt apreaciate all the atention you gave him ,hope his next girlfriend totaly ignores him so he can find out what he missed.Go out with your girlfriends and friends dont mope around .
Take care

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 3, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

thanks for the advice i appreciate it a lot....your right....

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Frank, I'd better continue searching for that dreamy model of wedding dress

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Nov 3, 2011●360 Comments

I agree Jana! I like male bodies too. The solution have affairs just like they do I guess!

Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico

Nov 3, 2011●1,830 Comments

Jana, It's a time warp virtual wedding so you can take all the time you need and get all the help you want from whoever you think or feel is helpfull . Remember you can go in the past the future or stay in the present for this one . Just as long as you are sadisfied . . . . the tainted troll . .

Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico

Nov 3, 2011●1,830 Comments

Jana, It's a time warp virtual wedding so you can take all the time you need and get all the help you want from whoever you think or feel is helpfull . Remember you can go in the past the future or stay in the present for this one . Just as long as you are sadisfied . . . . the tainted troll . .

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Belle I thought it was a past stage for me

Frank, what a wonderful knight you are

HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA

Nov 3, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments

You're still breathing, aren't you, Jana? Then your time is not past. And who knows? Maybe Frank will get a sudden and uncontrolable urge to visit Bulgaria!

bsooner●Chattanooga, Tennessee USA

Nov 3, 2011●595 Comments

Kakko, more details of the past relationship may bring more light to it. Have you been dating only a few weeks? Months? Do you live far apart? How often were you communicating in the past, hourly, twice a day? etc. It may help to understand the entire picture. I think the ladies have given you good advice. I doubt that all your attempts to contact him the one time he had not responded drove him away, it was building and he used it as the final excuse.

Belle, your advice about making the man chase you is sound advice, in the beginning, but if you had been dating a while, I see nothing wrong with Kakko worrying and trying to get in touch with him. She may have over done it with the number of times, I don't know. Otherwise, I do agree with you and Jana.

BTW......love a woman's body as well. Such a perfect sculpture designed by God!

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Hi Nevica!

As I said it doesn't sound bad... for some periods and circumstances in our life. But I think now I am ready for love

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 3, 2011●1,803 Comments

Ru who told you that women don't do it

Ah and you revealed the men's strategy, do you ;)

Seriously, until the things get serious with someone, we are free to communicate with more people.

nevica●beautiful, Gavleborg Sweden

Nov 3, 2011●21 Blogs●332 Comments

Ru, I agree, Jana, I wish you luck, I myself through this part of being serious, have been in 2 long traditional relationships in my life. I am so happy to be free and have no obligations and also sleep with who I want when I want. I never have intentional ONS, I do like long term and I have it, but those are OPEN relationships. We are close friends but don't promise each other this one thing, to be faithful in bed.

tatami●Inuyama City, Aichi Ken, Chubu Japan

Nov 3, 2011●241 Blogs●992 Comments

He broke up just maybe because he ran out of money for the b-day gift. Such a devil!

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 4, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

mmmmh... we did not meet online, we meet personal...we both working here in qatar,always been together going out,going anywhere...
Yes! true....i care and love so much this guy....even he dumped many times...but now i'm sick of it....i'm done..he don't deserve me at my best....

kakko_iiOP●Doha, Qatar

Nov 4, 2011●7 Blogs●24 Comments

mmmhp.... im not asking anything to him since we start our relationship....believe me or not i didn't ask this guy spend money to me... except when we going out.....but i give it back...
in relationship is nice to take but is nice too give also...

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