"It's better to receive a NO today, than MAYBE"
Is all about him....I know him for 6 months already,were just friends (friends that kissing each other, make love when weekends for fun)...
We both enjoying it...
His not committed to me, but were acting that we are committed to each other (No sweetness words)
But we are sweet when we are together...(little confuse)
His the type of guy, that sweet and quiet in person,lazy to do his things...
He love watching movies,love eating sweets (but he keep controlling
it) for the sake of his podges.
His the sweet guy i ever met,
He cuddle you up,
He will give you a huge while watching movies,
Kissing you softly....
He will give you a huge when you sleeping together...
He will Kiss you in the morning (even you didnt brush your teeth yet)
He will cook a food for you...
(He doing those things for what??? just to make me smile or what....even i know that he will never say yes to me )
i like him ...
But.....
One thing that i really dont like to him, He dont appreciate what im doing to him...
If he doing those little things to make me smile...
Im doing everything just to make him mine...
Chasing him all the time...doing everything just to please him, but never been appreciated...
Telling him how much you like him...(he will just dump me)
Everytime he dump i feel sad, want to cry, want hate him...
want to move and try to get over with him...
But after that i find myself saying this to him..."Even how many times you dump me i will stay"
I dont know why im doing that....
I hate him because he never hold my hand when we going outside,
I hate him because he never say that he miss me, even once!!!
I hate him because he doesnt like me to be her girl...
But most of all i hate my self for staying with him even i know already from the very start that he doesnt care and love me...
I try my best to him, make him smile always, very understanding,i care so much, try to know everything that he likes, and trr to give it to him...his everything to me =( but still im not the one that he looking for...
So tell me,my heart wanting him but my brain keep on saying letting him go,he dont deserve you at all your best...
need your advice...
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You seem like a very smart person who knows what she wants. Take pride in yourself and your accomplishments.
You are making alot of sacrifices for someone who doesnt and will probably never appreciate you.
Thanks, im trying but, always finding my self staying with him...and i hate it.....
Thanks, should i really to do that, letting him go? he doesnt care i know ( but he get jealous when im keep saying to him that i will go out with other guy, then he will come more curious, asking a lot of things about the guy) he make me confuse, he doesnt like me but why he care???(i cant understand him)
What to tell you... the best criterion is your happiness. Make the balance: what will make you feel better: staying or leaving. You know the song: "With or without you?".
Think about all the advantages of staying and leaving and all the disadvantages of them. I would say you d better leave but I know how hard it is when you are in love... That's why I say that a moment will come when you will have no doubt what you want!
Whatever you decide just don't rely on the belief he will change...
Thanks for a advice, half of mine want to stay away from him,and half is want to stay...(quite difficult to decide at this moment)
He didnt say NO to me yet but he just keep on dump me and saying maybe in the right time....
Maybe for me is YES or NO...
But i consider it NO the way he treat me....
Wondering when he will say YES....
Hoping not on the day that im tired of him...
Good luck!
Maybe can lead to yes.
But, I understand where you are coming from.
You can enjoy your time together with this person,
but make it clear that you are seeking more than this
and that you are not satisfied with a partial relationship.
When you have found someone compatible, who thinks more like
you, give that relationship your all.
love and being in love is the most important thing we can give
and I could go on for hours and hours saying about the rights and wrongs of being in love ....
but a simple answer is = we all have to learn to have a little give and take
my advice would be to take a break from this guy and be alone, and work on your self-esteem. if you don't, you will most likely attract someone else that does not want you, and the cycle will repeat itself.