Share your short dating experiences from CS

Hi, I went all the way to Johannesburg to meet this woman that I had been talking to for weeks on here, and then on skype, but Ive learnt my lesson. Dont travel 8 hours to go stay at a woman, rather let her come to you. I went there, but ended up having to watch tv and stay in her flat like a hamster, while she left me there in the day to go talk to her friends.

After 2 days of that, I decided to drive and take a long tour back to where I stay, I took an adventurous long trip and ended up having a car crash in the middle of the dessert, should I say, was towed to a tiny town which the nearest about 60km away, had to sleep in the car in the street for 2 days, until they could get the part, as it was over christmas. I could have slept in a hotel, but rather stayed in the car, than have it stripped overnight.

Anyway, not her fault at all, but that escapade cost me 7500 rand, so I dont think Ill shoot off to Johannesburg or Cape Town after a girl again. Rather let her catch a luxury bus and come up here.

Anyone have any interesting experiences
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i can't understand you,how come you spend 8 hours driving and visit a woman AND she ignored you !? uh oh i think one of you wasn't serious sigh
The funny thing was, that when I wanted to go and had made up my mind, then she didnt want me to go at all.
Guess, thats what they want, Want what they cant have, but dont want what they can have.
My God!! Some people have an event filled life,while I sit here in total Boredom trying to get someone to talk to me on the netblues
Glad your OK now!!!handshake
Not all meetings are destined to be DATES . . .

I just had a wonderful meeting with TWO CSers, and one came from JHB to CT, the other from Norway, via JHB . . .

I am happy to report that it was GREAT meeting my CS friendsvery happy smile group hug
with all due respect,you was fool and naive,next time if someone tell you don't come,means they are not really interested.grin anyway its good to end this way,it could be worse.uh oh wink
may be parti , if you wear a pretty hat it might help banana
she wanted you to go? then when she knew you were going she didnt seem to want you to go any longer .. if you knew that, then why did you still go dunno
Sorry you had to experience this! It was very unkind of her! If she didn't want you to come she should have told you and if she thought there wasn't chemistry in person she should have been honest to you!

The detail about the hamster made me laugh a lot, sorry rolling on the floor laughing

As I woman I would always prefer the man to come to me. So I don't know if a woman would come to you... Wish you luck!!! hug
Itchywitch, I get bored doing nothing, compounded in a flat. I wanted her to do things with me, not leave me alone in a flat, while she went to visit her friends. Once Ive made up my mind, thats it, I dont go back. I saw her true personality by this, and new this is how it will always be.
Hi Virgo, lol
nightclubbibg not my scene anymore, but we did have funtongue
teddybear kiss
I know, the sad thing about living here is the damage the apartheid era caused. There are hundred of beautiful girls of colour in this tiny town, but not one of them will have a relationship with me, because they say Im white and we all wear the same caps. Although, I had had 2 secret relationships here, but, when the people found out, it was huge gossip and jealousy from the men, so it didnt last long.
So, I have to find a relationship with a girl that lives in the cities, which people of all different races etc mix a bit more and its more accepted. In the Northern Cape part of the country, its still like apartheid exists, and races dont mix at all, so its as though Im trying to change the system.

Now, Im not saying I wouldnt go out with a white girl either, but the white girls here are very few, and are really very large and rough, they are farmer type woman, so I guess Im alone up here.
ask her nicely for her number and give her a call morgen , wave
ha haa ,i just wanted to name one white woman for you,but she is very large and rough grin sigh
Guess, she might not be too fond of her sister. Jokes
well let me say what they say is true conversing
rainbow, you are indeed a white man but im sure you know that already yourself roll eyes

perhaps you should move elsewhere, you might feel more welcomed rather then feeling like a castout of some kind dunno
hmmm morg hmmm
why are you giving me a hard time tonight???
picking on everything i say dunno as for keeping scores or points, bloody hell what you talking about boyo confused but eh' im not my sisters keeper tongue
Hi Itchywitch, I did live in your country for 6 years, England, as you can see, I have a bit of the mentality still, but I was a total outcast there, hopefully never have to go back there again, and Im sure the English dont want me taking there jobs anyway. Well, thats what I was reminded of everyday there etc.
Still a bit bitter about that, but I hear Europe is collapsing and wont recover, so Maybe Ill get a bit of revenge. Jokes
haha virgo laugh laugh laugh
but i doubht morg would last more then a minute with my sister giggle
whats wrong with white women rainbow???
wow,i hope Scotch10000 is snoring now sleep grin
White womans values are too high still. Woman of colour are much more accepting and compassionate. Attractive Bronze skin to die for aswell, not a pale of white.
Lets hoep he is Firas... or we'll be in for a show beyond... laugh
yes with a bit more colour than me can help get a little less sunburnt .....and eat more tomatoes to cut down on sunburn ,you white people wave
Rainbow. If your a toughy i can buy a piece of land and farm it.
Get a colored wife and build it together. Hopefully SA wan't collaps cos if that happens it will go kabooooong!
Something for you to do this idea?
Cheap land there i think.
I meant YOU can... my spelloe.. late too..
but pale is purity rainbow, or so they say dunno
No, South Africa is progressing, Europe is collapsing, I guess Europe will become like Africa, and maybe Africa will become like Europe was. I guess this might be the African Renaisance. Europe is in huge Debt and cannot find the money to get out of it. I heard something like 100 000 people going onto the streets everyday there, so I dont think things are looking to good.
Maybe history will repeat itself and the Europeans will once again come to Africa and try conquer and take its resources, I dont know.
Itchy Witch, I do art aswell, I like colours. Dark colours are mysterious and interesting to me, so maybe thats why Im more attracted to ladies of colour, I dont know.
I did a lovely portrait of an African lady, and its much more interesting for me to do that, than other portraits.
Don't think so Rainbow. If so we should trade the whole continant for the other. lol. Make a switch... hehe.

Well financially i also don't thing africa can go much lower,
so rather up. Q is however, will SA be stabile?
Hay, lets hope it will.
Now, how about farming for you pal?

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I dont like farming, my skin is fair, it doesnt like the hot sun here, Ive already had a skin cancer cut out a few years ago.
And everyone is trying to sell the farms, as they worried the same will happen here as what happened in Zimbabwe.
Ooh, got to go, their is noise outside my window and its 3am in the morning. Luckily I have a few combat skills. buy.
well i guess rainbow if your attracted to them more so then prefaring them dunno guess no one can help who attracks them... im kinda like that with rugby players, i try not to but then i see those thighs smitten we all have weakness be them right or wrong doh comfort
I know R... i felt it too (whan i was there recantly),
thats why im saying im hoping for the best.

Best to you and your plans. cheers
not a single one .lol.
Rainbow, Europe is not collapsing and never will! tongue laugh
And pray that it won't collapse because it will be a catastrophe for all the others. I can never get the feeling to be happy when someone has troubles dunno
I am sorry, I would never share with my dating experiences from CS, because I rely on honesty, respect and confidence. I would really be furious if any man describe any dating with me on public scene. As well I would never do that. I respect people even I do not always agree with them.
Aswina, thats why I dont give names. Nobody knows the person, nobody ever will.
be careful with witches they can harm you grin when they get mad very mad hole
No, Jana isnt a witch, I like her.
Thank you Rainbow, I know we are friends hug teddybear

Don't pay attention to FL, I dislike his Muslim propaganda, that's why he calls me witch. wave
my CS friend went all the way from Canada to see me.. We had so much fun together. I guess you just have to find the real one.
Good luck!
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