This is so true....
So I was reading an astrology reading of myself and it seems this is one of the strongest things (by calculation) in my chart. The thing is, its so true, now to try to figure out how to not be so unrealistic.
I guess the whole fairytale idea isn't true after all. 
Unrealistic expectations (Venus Square Neptune)
You can be overly idealistic in your approach to relationships. There may also be times when you'll expect your partner to accept you with all your faults, without a word of complaint on their part or any effort to change on yours. Very few people, except perhaps a saint, can measure up to the high expectations you set for a relationship. When things start to fall apart, you'll probably not even notice that anything's wrong until the whole thing dissolves away before your eyes. There may also be times when you may find yourself led into actions that you later regret.
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"You tend to be ruled by your emotions in any relationship. You're sensitive to the needs of others and are capable of self-sacrifice for a loved one. On the other hand, you can be very evasive in your emotional conduct. If someone tries to pin you down as to what you really feel, you may avoid expressing your true emotions."
It is also very true, I always sacrifice my needs for the other person, even if its not something I want to do, which in turn, I later end up regretting because it didn't work out the way I planned.....
anyways hope everything works well with u soon....
I'm not about to change myself.... if I do I will regret not being true to myself & vice versa. There are some things I wouldn't do & if I ever did or do it would be because I decided to & not because I was "told to". It takes two to make it work....& be realistic.
Life is ten percent what happens to you
and ninety percent how you respond to it.
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage