How many people are lonely ?, but dont like to adm

the title says it all... so many people say they are lonely, yet when I see their photos, i think " how can you be short of dates?"
you are beautiful, educated etc, so what is happening ? The same for men applies, though Im not a good judge of "handsome"... !!!
So what is the problem ? answers please ?
Why are there so many single people struggling to find that right person ? Or any person ??
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Calpe

very lonely not afraid to admit itcrying crying crying
ha ha..yes but you seem to be having a row going on right now,,which maybe would be better on private email ? ?
what do you think ?
j x
Maybe angel angel angel
nothing in life is ever straightforward or simple, and may take some thought...lots of thought,,but i think that if two people like each , then maybe if it is a two way street, then compromises have to be made.. on both sides, so these issues have to be confronted.. discussed and hopefully a situation, good for all will prevail... best i can say Im afraid ?
Hey ..Tisme , got any more good funny gags? thanks ...
hope all goes well !!??????
Si, Y tu por que estas solo?confused
"so many people say they are lonely, yet when I see their photos, i think " how can you be short of dates?"
you are beautiful, educated etc, so what is happening?"

I´ve been wondering that when I see many handsome men and still single. confused How´s possible?

I liked Lazly´s question. Muy guapo usted. Por que estas solo? wave
as humans, we are social animals, we need to interact, to belong, some say they are an island, and need no one, i have seen few true examples of this in my life, everyone responds to love, stop ticking boxes, we are all individual personalities, dont pigeon-hole people, let them fly, who knows, they may fly to you.angel2
very funnylaugh
Funny...my daughter asked me, how I can live alone and be single for a long time. I told her that I don't need someone, I may want someone. There is a difference. She responded to me, I can't be alone. But I did admit to her that it can be lonely at times.
1st they have set high standard for themselves ...
2nd ego gets in the way when they are interested
3re doubts ..insecure and suspicion abound .
4th vain there's still more but only these are blaring out loud !
Last one ...wrong or incorrect answers but I see it like crossed wire peace
I, as well, don't know the answer to this question. I can only guess about this reason or that, but the real truth I don't know. I wish somebody very wise gave me an answer to it which would not be just guessings and maybes and approximations.

hmmm
very lonely have been for 3 years
morgen90210

You for got one...cautious about dating.

Cautious about getting into a relationship again based on past experiences.

Myself, I would rather be single and lonely than in the last relationship that I was in, won't get into detail but it is kind of stupid but I am happier now dunno
I have a simply explanation for our loneliness. We just want to have all. Sometimes we expect too much because nobody can be perfect. If we understand this and give up it will be possible to have a partner. But most of us in this sites are very valuable people and we searching a human been which deserve us. It is in the human nature to search and want the most the best the biggest the nicest and that is not bad. Human race improves and developers on this way.
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Calpe, Valencia, Spain

I like music, cooking, eating, sharing a bottle of wine with someone special whilst watching the sun set. I like to stay in and watch tv, but I also like to go out.!! Im spontaneous, but above all....A good man going to waste !! [read more]

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