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Hi everybody, I'm back after so many months of being quiet. I thought my life was complete.I was having a relationship with a men and we decided to move to UAE and work there. He told from there we will start a new life.I resign with my job and go with him and give up everything here in the place where i work with.While giving a month of notice we visit UAE seeking for employment and i got a job within a week of holiday there.I left him in UAE to complete my month notice and get all my gratuity and salary. End of this month i will go back to UAE and start my job. So while im here he visited his cousin and 3 days after my arrival i got a message that he will leave the place and the country. I call him but he switch off his mobile. I try to call his cousin but not answering my call.
I contacted his father and found out he went back to India.Till now there is no communication and I decided not to pursue my job there and just withdrawn my resignation here. Am i right with my decision?
What do you think the best way to do with this problem.Is there a men in this world who has a such character like that. I can't imagine he did that after more than 4 years of knowing each other.
Anyone knows how to trace the person whether he is in UAE or India.He is hiding i don't know why.
It's shock me a lot and till now i had a hard time to recover .
Good advice is highly appreciated.
Comments (17)
This is the way I handle women that don't want me anymore. I walk away and I don't turn back. Some of them wanted me back and others left and I never saw them again. To those that wanted me back I stayed away and refused to return.
My advice to you is to just walk away from this man and continue your life as you did before. You bent over backwards to make this relationship work so no one can put blame on you. You will win in the end!
And great to see you back!!!
Besides, there's "A C.S. WEDDING RECEPTION" coming to the CS blogs soon... very soon. lol.
Its nice you continue with your present job.
Thanks everybody ,,,just help me to pray that i can move on because right now i lost 10kg. I can't sleep and eat thinking of him and why he did that to me.
Anyway the school accept me again to continue working. Thank's God he never leave me..
Our God is a powerful and wonderful God! All praise and glory goes to HIM! Now, just remember that HE will also help you forget.
And don't beat yourself up. You didn't do anything wrong!
Only you who could understand the pain, just take your time and just like Saskia said forgive and forget.
Life is too beautiful and the world will still keep going, let's not get stucked in just a 'bump' among your yet coming adventure.
You deserve the best
Hang in there, take comfort with the people you love
I am not a psychiatric or like others with a lot of experiences to tell you what you should do,but i think you are adult enough to make a right decision with your life specially when it is about a partner.So my point is no matter where you came from,which culture you have,differences will always be there even with your own people.
You the only person can choose and you are responsible with every step you do,so go back and think and ask yourself,what went wrong after "4 years" !? Did you make some crucial mistakes he didn't like!? I can make a list(why,what)but it will cost me a lot of time and you must write me a check or just send me your credit card number
Anyway it will always be a speculations coz we do not know what really happened in that 4 years.I can convince you and let you hate him and hate all of his country and his realign and stigmatize his culture but this only will present my failed and past experiences and not yours.