VERY cheap(date) holiday.
You can find someone you like or may like in a place you like to visit and exchange your holidays with him/her. You save money on a hotel and transportation(if he/she has a car) and you will get a perfect sightseeing. Local people know the best sights or you may find on the internet the places you want to see and tell him/her to take you there. When I travel alone I may find cheaper sightseeing than my travel company offers at the place BUT they take you with bus to the places they want to sell something and there they stay most of the time, they stay only short time in the places that are on the program, with a local personal guide as a date you can be anywhere as long as you want and only in the places you want and that’s for free. Never eat out, buy all food in the cheap shops(the date knows where because he/she is local) and cook at home.And the last but not the least you will have a lot of fun activities to do with the person you meet instead of having a traditional (BORING) dinner date, you may have this too at some point if you want. And he/she may also turn to be the love of your life, or at least your friend that you can meet once or twice a year and repeat the fun.
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But be careful when you get use to it cos you will never accept a partner again in your life,in other word,you will travel every year and like it,it become a habit .
I like your honesty and your way of thinking .You seem know what you want and dare to talk not like others here,they never say what they "really" want,at least most of them.
Nice to have you here
but I will keep your suggestion in mind for some time in the future when he is gone, hopefully i will still be around then. you are welcome to sweden, unfortunately it's not as nice and warm as Puerto Rico but some people may find it exotic.
may I ask how many languages u speak and how u can do it? maybe u r a genius in some way, I don't know.
"to siberian from sweden,
may I ask how many languages u speak and how u can do it? maybe u r a genius in some way, I don't know."
I can read, write and speak on different levels in 8 languages. Speaking is the weakest part because that needs practise in real life. When I write I may check words and verb forms (which is hell in latin languages), English and Swedish are so easy compared to those.
I have Aspergers, this may explain a lot, a lot of people with it have a higher intelligence than usual but lack in communication with people. I may appear to be normal but people make me tired, it takes more effort to me to process social information. that's why I want to live alone and only meet people sometimes and avoid groups, it's just too much for me.
"I have Aspergers, this may explain a lot, a lot of people with it have a higher intelligence than usual but lack in communication with people. I may appear to be normal but people make me tired, it takes more effort to me to process social information. that's why I want to live alone and only meet people sometimes and avoid groups, it's just too much for me."
I need to read more about it! Cause I have never liked big companies (for a long time) and I definitely need time to stay alone and enjoy it a lot. I am very sociable but for a longer time it makes me feel nervous and tired. I have explained it to myself with my "weak, or vulnerable aura", so lacking a strong barrier between me and the others' presence. It happens to me even with my closest people. Too much talks can get unbearable to me...
So the man who d be with me must "enjoy the silence" and leave me alone every now and then. That's why I like men busy with work!
It's okay ,take time and get some rest,i understand what Asperger is,but sometimes people do not know you and they just ask and curious .Try to communicate more,just try.
Sorry I am off topic!
About living with someone, now you touched a nerve in me. Cause I can't really imagine it in practice although I have a long marriage behind me. I can only imagine it with a man who d be busy with his job so we keep a healthy distance and thus be more desirable for each other. For me to stick with someone 24/7 would be unbearable.
or more like talking to everybody on a Grayhound bus across the states?
joking