I love you MORE!!!

unhappy love may be a good thing. A lot of poetry, songs, and books have their origin in unhappy love, so unhappy love is GOOD for a creative person. Love is a two way street? In the ideal world Yes, both would love each other equally. Unfortunately we don’t live in the ideal world and everything ideal happens very seldom.
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My mother taught me if he doesn’t show enough interest, try to break up first, never run after a man and don’t be a door mat. I followed her advice all my life. Now I want to try the opposite just as an experiment, it's ok if i love him more.
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What will happen if he actually come and see me and doesn’t like me?(but i like him)It's a big deal to just being around someone who you are happy to watch doing simple things, talk to him and secretly watch him, and when he would only touch me it would be heaven, just kiss and touch would be more that any elaborate s*xual performance.
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I don’t mean self-destructive relationship with someone who treats you badly(just love you less).
ps, this is just a fantasy, an idea, i am not about to meet anyone
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Hey Virgo, I am from Hoki Poki and tried to email you but no luck
and you will want to checkout who their friends are too! just to be sure they are the right people to know or you will have to start makein rules of who can come around and visit , like couples and no singles , unless they are family , wave
thats odd I dont have any restrictions on who can send mail ?
its open now if you are quick
I tried but no luck. Does the barber still come whistling through
yes , early in the morning , the bridge that the train crosses to get the coal has been replaced with a concrete one , and we have one less road-rail bridge at ahura just befor hoki , and nothing else has changed
Hi Nevwave
You say: What will happen if he actually come and see me and doesn’t like me?

Dont put the cart before the horse. even if he did'nt like you at least it was something else. Not the usual routine, yes.
BUT I'm pretty sure he will more than 'like' you.cool handshake drinking
Nevica, I just logged on... didn't pay attention or read your whole blog, hun ...
but the headlines caught me teddybear
I have this thing with my kids: when they say "I love you"
I always respond with " I love you more"
Sweet thought hug
tangerino, I should learn to write shorter, I have a problem to read long blogs or posts myselfdoh comfort hug
I promise to read it all..Just got caught in making a quick response here because your headline shot straight to the heart heart beating
tangerino, i have shortened itcheers
tang, me and my daughter always say the same thing! So sweet!
Nevica, of course he will like you! Who wouldn't????comfort hug I believe me and my guy are off now...Good luck on yours!
hi Lazly, I don't believe in "one true love forever", I believe that we may love different people with different intensity and need different things in different periods of our life. from my previous experience i can tell that a relationship can work for very long time if one person loves, another accepts it and the benefits of a relationship, for instance.
anyone who says of course he will like you, ariel where are you with your reality balansed NO? what IF NOT? have fun with your guy callibouquet
yes or no, anyway i think i am totally ok and ready (at least in theory) love MORE. Nothing wrong with that.
Calli, the sweetest thing, so glad we could share teddybear
Hi pretty Nevica.. Thanks for shortening your blog. Sheeessh! Dont you just hate when people write LONG blogs or books on here! lol. grin help

Aaah Nevica, it seems you long for romance and cozy hugs and kisses. I understand your Love is a two way street, but not in reality. For me, Love is a two way freeway.. Im going one way.. and everyone else is going as fast as they can the other way.

I say.. LOVE MORE... what the heck, we only live twice.. so have fun.. take a try at love... jump in... and if things dont work out.. well, you never know unless you try. Nothing gets done if we do nothing about it. Dont be afraid to lose, because when you win it will all be truly worth it. Yeah!!! ..er just my two cents... if anybody cares to listen. blues cool
Hi Robert, as you always say nobody loves you and pays attention to you, I can almost always say nobody understands me crying crying

Just read the half of the comments and see they have nothing to do with what I am talking about. You are close, stony and lazly tried, thank you guys teddybear
BTW I do hate long posts and blogs, I have no patience for them (but i do have patience to write them)doh
yes Virgo, that's the bestcheering
What Nevica? YOu mean nobody loves me or pays attention to me? I never knew that! help Well, I know it now.. no wonder my new blog only has a few views and comments. Oh well..moping grin
well then , step up rob cheering
robert, you are always complaining doh Let's complain together cheers hug comfort Even when they say they love me, I don't believe them moping blues
yeah , at least try , no just jokeing ..it could be painfull rolling on the floor laughing
Nevica, Oh forget about me complaining, Im just getting old or Im already old, one of the two... but this BLOG is about YOU!!! You dont need to complain, just be more positive and feel better.. the world is your clam, er shrimp, er I mean oyster.grin
gosh , how how long have you been with those books now , too long , I'm sure , oh yeah , its going to take a lotof love to fill your cup

Robert your problem(and mine) that we right too long and also probably too strange, the only thing I understood of what you write here is that we are old cryingcrying
I'm older than you , so in my eyes you are young comfort hug hug
omg, Robert, Virgo and me will make 154 years togetheruh oh That is old.doh
I better go to sleep then and forget everything, good night guys, it's 1.16 here.
11:20 a.m. in the morning here wave teddybear
Loving more can be destructive. As I have (based on my past relationships) experienced. I DID not love more, they loved me more and it just imploded on them. Too much too soon. But anyhow, it's not the blog is all about.. My take, i too am experimenting on the I love you more thing but trudging On with a bit more caution. Not to dig in too deep. It's a dangerous game. We ll always end up emotionally drained and hurt having unrequited love. If you know the rules of your own game then head on and jump in. Be sure to come out unscathed and satisfied.
As with the 'what if, he doesn't like me' , can't do much on that. It appears more like having a crush. Love that feeling tho. confused
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Papermate, thank you for the excellent commentthumbs up
yes the cure is in hand wave
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