Am I wrong?

I met a seemingly cool guy on this site and although we were of different ethnicities and different we quickly became friends. There wasnt a day that we didnt chat online, and we both are artists so we critiqued each others work, then one day without warning he stops responding to my "hi's". He would come online and leave without a word
after a month he suddenly says hello and resumes messaging me as though nothing happened.
So I got mad and cussed him out.... Now he says im bi- polar......am I wrong?
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Naw, your not wrong and it doesn't appear that your bi-polar either. Name calling is usually an excuse to distract the other person when indeed this guy may be lying to you and it sounds like he is. What? I don't know but being married and feeling guilty sounds just about right to me!
confused don't know the whole story but sounds like major head games.who needs that. grin just ignore it and make new friends to chat with. conversing dancing comfort teddybear
You sound just fine to me! I think the guy was up to no good.
Don't worry about him. There are plenty of us single guys out there. O.K.? dancing
Definitely, you are not bipolar. And the guy deserved it. grin Sorry, I mean to just disappear without explanation, just so rude of him. He can email or tell you directly, though it would hurt but the consolation that he told you beforehand is kind enough, in my opinion. He might have bigger reasons but he must have told you and not leave you wondering what went wrong.

I do believe there are still nice guys in this world. We just have to carefully look for them. Good luck Shelly. bouquet
Shelly, it is very good that he showed his face before you entered into a real relationship with him. I know these kinds of guys, stay away from them.... my advice. Good luck, dear.hug
shellyb1980
sometimes the mind plays games on you .....you think why has he not rang..or did i say something.....frustrated .... then he sends that to you you gofrustrated and now you look the fool..........for thinking that...so never asume anything about anyone ..keep doing what your doing be nice if he does not reply then ....................thumbs up


now that i got that out of me....cant leave with ....comic reliefgroup hug idea cswelcome party
Market thank you for this comment! I don't know how is it with guys but most of women spend a lot of time and nerves to worry if they didn't do something wrong, why doesn't he write/call, why did he say this and not that etc, etc... Often when I did it, later I discovered that there was no any agenda or special reason from his side! Or the reason was very simple, but in all the ways the man COULD NEVER GET WHY I HAD WORRIED! Really, I think men's mind just can't get women's worry in such cases. That's why men are happier and with lighter heart than women usually laugh wave
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Thanks for the comments everyone. But I think I was misunderstood.

We were not in a relationship and didn't intend on being in one. He did let me know however that if we were closer he would have liked to try but I quickly let him know the truth about my relationship status. I was an am dating someone else i had met on the site and we live pretty close to each other.

So we became FRIENDS,we would discuss relationship issues and he would tell me about girls on the site he was interested in and I would offer advice. Then one day I saw him online and said hi and immediately he went offline. After that weeks passed and we would both be online and he never chatted with me so I didn't initiate contact either.

When he did say hello, he was acting as though I was the one who truncated communication and even commented that I didn't respond and that I cut him off. Then when I cussed him out he says that I'm bi - polar.

I did delete him though but he keeps sending me messages!
Hi Shellyb 1980.well it's not nice to control & cuss somebody, even though u guys were together .The way you behaved with him he would think you are an angry & controlling woman. So he gave up on you.
Always show others you're a respectful & professional woman,that will attract men even more.
Don't rush for now,take your time ,chat with others & see which one is best for you & without getting upset.
Hope i gave u some great ideas .
teddybear
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I am a quiet person , I like nature, ( fishing),shopping, quiet times indoors, just reading or in the company of my significant other. I'M not into emotional games, I do not like being hurt so I don't practice hurting others. I am intellectual and ca [read more]

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