Wished on a star,rubbed on a lamp.

Specialtime, as I often say to my daughter when she "pours" all her problems together, is: One by one!
So, problem N 1: You are shy and don't like to be surrounded by a crowd of friends. Who said you need to have zillions of friends? Most of people have a couple of real ones and it's more than enough. The others are acquaintances and no need to waste too much time for them. And what if you are a shy or more private? It's not a crime... People like you either find a similar soul or the opposite to balance them :)

Problem N 2: Your income. Let's hope for the best in the future when you probably will find a better paid job or some better option. But why to support a girlfriend? Most of the women are emancipated or at least they say so... Of course, you have to be a gentleman but it doesn't mean to support her...

Good luck and see you around!

Also I have a hard time making an income to support myself, let alone support a girlfriend as well. I wish I could be a more connective person.
your income, women needs security

All of us has worries, this and that, but who doesn't. You seem to have known what are the things that make you lonely/sad. You try to work on that. Meet women not girls. Ariel cited to you great points about meeting friends not just acquaintances. Its not about quantity of people but the quality of time being spent.

And why do you have to support a girlfriend financially? Support your wife and kids (in the future), not the girlfriend this early.

Wow thanks for the feed back i appropriate it, I just found this posting and your comments today and read them all. I must of been having a bad day that day wow! I am usually a very positive person most of the time, and am a hard worker and always have done well for myself. However lately ive just been upset that, all of these books I've read and knowledge about staying positive and manifesting things into my life just has not been happing yet for me. What did work was that one day I got really upset and angry instead of going by the book and I started doing things different and got some better results. But still havent been able to attract a soul mate, moneys coming in in very odd ways not much but ill take it! What i mean by support a girlfriend is that girls/women always want to go places and do stuff and it cost $$$, starbucks $4 movies $12 popcorn $12 gas $20 dinner $10,double it if i deside to pick up the tab...Roses $20 chocolates$10 hey lets go shopping!!! lunch $7 "Your not gonna buy something??" $25.00+ "lets go to the concert!" $50.00!!! Dancing $15 drinks $8+Disneyland are you crazy!!?? a birthday,your sisters selling girlscott cookies???.plus i have bills to pay cell phone,car,rent,ins,this and that...